Im wit her she has the right idea on the things he needs to do and this is coming from a dude to so yeah

Thank you Killer.
I honestly believe if someone hurts you that they should apologize and try to make up for it.
I am not asking him to give up his house, his toys or his friends...
I just want something back emotionally from him... that he took when he hurt me.

I wouldn't just be waiting on what if. Life is to precious to be put on hold for any one.