I think its time to get someone to help you through this. Get help from a therapist, to understand why you let him hurt your mind, body, and soul. Then call a cop, on him for harassing you. I don't think you can resist, or you would have stopped taking his calls. You would have stopped listening to him. He ONLY wants you back to use you some more. Go to a doctor for a check up, and tell him to recommend someone, for you to talk to. The sooner the better.

I agree with the others, run like hell

As a male therapist I strongly suggest you see a therapist... to help you realize that you made the right decision and to help you to recognize males that are dangerous and unhealthy earleir and to know how to handle it. This guy is narcissistic, hurtful, has no empathy or concern for you or other females, has a terrible attiturde towards women and is NOT the normal of my half of the species. There are loving, caring men in the world who will treat you well, you don't have to take this type of person.

Randy:)

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Originally Posted by benandjerrysmadness

i knew i had to end the relationship, basically i was his sex toy (object)

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Yes you nailed it on head with this statement.

If what you said is indeed true then he is slime and a perv. There is nothing worth caring about. If you feel threatened by him, report him to the cops. If you fear for his safety (If you believe his "suicidial" crap) the again call the cops and tell them you fear he is suicidal and they will figure out how to get him some help (if he is not making it up to make you feel sorry to get more action out of his favorite sex toy).

I bet he is indeed depressed... he is depressed he is losing access to easy sex. Run away, run far away from this creep.