Best thing to do is ignore everything about him. Knowing about the other person normal always upsets us


I can understand how that hurts your willing to give him everything he turns you down. Now he is looking for something that you wanted to give me at the start

Typical

Don't waist your time on people like this :)

You'll find someone who will want everything you want

Trust me :)

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Originally Posted by TrueFaith

Best thing to do is ignore everything about him. knowing about the other person normal always upsets us


i can understand how that hurts your willing to give him everything he turns ya down. now he is looking for somthing that you wanted to give me at the start

typical

dont waist your time on people like this :)

youll find somone who will want everything you want

trust me :)

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Thank you, yes, I have been trying to ignore him and his stupid page. I actually only looked at his page 3 times. Then I stopped myself. So I'm kind of proud about that.

It is hard to stop looking, but once you stop for a few days, you no longer get the urge to look at it. Ha ha if you want, when you get that urge, look at my myspace... And listen to the song and then you will feel all better lol

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Originally Posted by talaniman

I think we had to work harder to keep a relationship, because there were a lot less options available. Heck, eharmony has replaced going to bars, to find a female almost, and thats only one dating sight. They have one for every need now. Things seem to happen a lot faster than back in the day, as shacking up is so normal, no one says anything about being married. And moving out changes your life, so you get someone else, before you even move the furniture. But with this new technology comes the headaches, because hooking up is easier, and as we see some just do it, before they even know the person. Sheesh slowdown world, I want to get off.

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Well said. Everything moves faster, and some people expect it all to be effortless. Instant gratification. Not stereotyping--but I have noticed a trend among my single male friends who are in their late twenties and early thirties. Each one of them complains because they aren't married. But they never make too much of an effort to do anything really. When they do find someone nice, they tend to push them away because they are so accustomed to being single, uncompromising, and unbending. They would totally not admit it, but they have such commitment issues because they never really had to work hard at keeping anything going. Why should they if they can get laid on eHarmony? Lol. They don't make them like they used to... lol or do they, and I just haven't found one? Hmmmm. ;)