I read on a previous post that You can actually get one done before the child is born. Im not sure how, since I have two of my own and never heard of that before. But it may be harder to do it that way because the mother will have to be willing to do that. Well Im sure whatever the outcome things will straighten(spelling) themselves out in the end. Like Talalin (spelling again) said if it is yours, then send her the check. But on a more lighter note, just do what you need to do to be a father to this child and don't worry so much about her. Remember your not alone so many people find themselves in this situation it isn't even funny. My youngest brother is going through almost the same situation that your in now, and we are very close, so I can relate a little to how your feeling. Good luck with everything
