Ask Me Help Desk - Does she miss me?

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Good idea.

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Originally Posted by Sean23

I know how you feel, ive been there. How do know so much about her relationship, and her guy? You need stop with the interest in her relationship. The more you think about her, and whether she is thinking of you, or missing you, its just going to eat you from the inside out. Its been 4 months, and your concerned that she isnt thinking of you. So what if she isnt! You need to starting thinking about urself, and build your life without her.

Her relationship probably was on the rebound, but it seems it has become something more. Dont beat urself up over it (If you are). Your single RIGHT? Go have some fun, and start thinking of number 1... e.g YOU.

I know the most important person right now is me. These 4 months have gone by so fast, I can't believe it. Its just hard for me to let go 100% and the thought of her letting go kills me inside.

I was in a relationship for 6 years my friend. Ended about 9 weeks ago. She broke up with me, and still don't really know why. I was blinded by love for about 6 weeks after she ended it, and I wanted her back so much. But I'm all right now, not 100%... but I'm better then I was, and I'm definitely thinking of her less.

Just be strong, you'l find someone else that will make your ex look like a stepping stone.

:)

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Originally Posted by Sean23

I was in a relationship for 6 years my friend. Ended about 9 weeks ago. She broke up with me, and still dont really know why. I was blinded by love for about 6 weeks after she ended it, and I wanted her back so much. But im alright now, not 100%... but im better then I was, and im definitly thinking of her less.

Just be strong, you'l find someone else that will make your ex look like a stepping stone.

:)

Im really sorry to hear that, I think the reason Im having so much trouble letting go is because I was in a huge comfort zone with her and when she left I fell flat on my face, I couldn't do anything for a good 2 months, I still think about her everyday, but not as much and I don't get as sad. What hurt me the most was not ending our relationship, it was seeing her move on to another guy and now loving him. I do realize that her relationship with him shouldn't concern me and it doesn't matter what they do in their lives together. But, like I always say, it was meant to be. And if her and I are meant to get back together, fate will bring us back together, but if not then thanks for the memories. The scariest thing is the future.

All I can is you never know what the future holds. And don't even worry about trying to find someone else right now. You just have to battle through this, like me, and like most other people on here. Do you really think your girlfriends new relationship will last in the long run? Maybe... but maybe not. It doesn't matter. All I know is you just have to focus on yourself, and let time do the rest. Just don't wait for her, because it may never happen.

Be smart, be strong, and there is light at the end of the tunnel.

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Originally Posted by Sean23

All I can is you never know what the future holds. And dont even worry about trying to find someone else right now. You just have to battle through this, like me, and like most other people on here. Do you really think your girlfriends new relationship will last in the long run? Maybe... but maybe not. It doesnt matter. All I know is you just have to focus on yourself, and let time do the rest. Just dont wait for her, because it may never happen.

Be smart, be strong, and there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Very true my friend, well said. In the long run I do not think it will last for her, but as you said it doesn't matter. I believe all situations will be resolved but in god's time not ours. Make sure you hang on as well and stay strong, your relationship was twice as long as mine. Good luck buddy.