I would take her completely off my friends list. Might even consider blocking her. I was lucky in the sense of I paid for my girls cell so when we went NC I turned the phone off and let her know. When she changed her number I made sure not to save it. I couldn't call her if I wanted too and if I want to contact her it takes too much of an effort.

Hope this isn't a silly question, mainly aimed at the girls... If I do what kuulski has said would my ex think that I'm being mean or think that I don't give a **** anymore? Would a normal girl wonder why I haven't text or spoke to her for a while? Even though bear in mind she is making a couple of new friends now whilst spending her days at university and going out on occasionally on a night with them. I'm starting to think that I've just vanished out of her head and heart overnight. How could this happen so easily? I don't know what she thinks about when she's sitting in the house on her own though. Only time will tell.

As long as she isn't contacting you to make you feel like an emotional yo-yo you can keep her on your contact lists until you feel comfortable taking her off or know there is N0 point in keeping her on any longer. If you want to take her off your lists then she can deal with it since she is the one that doesn't want you. If she has a problem with it I am sure she will find a way to contact you to ask why.

What really gets on my nerves is the way she always looks at my myspace page for new comments if you know what I mean. She used to get really jealous if another girl commented me, it didn't matter who it was, it could be one of you lot for all we care, then she goes onto their profile page and looks at what I've commented myself. I know she still does it even though she finished me, a girl I speak to sometimes has flooded my page with comments saying things like "it'd be good to see u again after all this time" (she works in a bar in my town centre but I've never been close to her or anything) my ex hasn't seen the comments I don't think yet.. but I know she will think I'm up to something, when I'm not. It's just chit chat. What do you make of this, what is she doing?

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Originally Posted by chris08

What really gets on my nerves is the way she always looks at my myspace page for new comments if you know what i mean. She used to get really jealous if another girl commented me, it didn't matter who it was, it could be one of you lot for all we care, then she goes onto their profile page and looks at what ive commented myself. I know she still does it even tho she finished me, a girl i speak to sometimes has flooded my page with comments sayin things like "it'd be good to see u again after all this time" (she works in a bar in my town centre but ive never been close to her or anything) my ex hasnt seen the comments i dont think yet.. but i know she will think im up to something, when i'm not. It's just chit chat. What do you make of this, what is she doing?

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Chris
If she is looking at your MySpace do you really care? Don't worry about what she is doing or thinking it's not of your concern anymore. Get on with your life and worry about yourself.

Man I can't stand woman that do this. They can't communicate and they're too scared of what your reaction might be.
Let it go, it will just screw with your mind until you go mad and you will never get the answer you are looking for no matter what time has passed. Get on w/ your own life now and count your blessings.

And the answer to your question ?

Q./ Do girls normally do this?

A./ YES ! They're all nuts !

This thread is from 2007.