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but i am healing...

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Of course you, are and I'm glad you see the value of not isolating yourself from life.

I'm really trying to do everything I can to help myself it feels pretty good for the first time I'm thinking of myself!!

Good for you! It sounds like you are on the road to feeling better about your life. Keep it up, you're going to be just fine. ;)

You I'm definitely on the road to feeling perfect. My initial reaction to the breakup was OMG I'm going to be alone and that's cause of my shyness and inabilitiy to approach people so I'm working on that now and I no it takes time so we will see what happens from here... Now I'm don't want to sounds totally selfish but I did try very hard to work on our relationship with no avail and now I see that there are others who had the same issues as I do around the same age got married anyway and are so worse off sooo this is so the right time!!

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Originally Posted by chris28

this is true im starting to see that im making all positive changes cause im hurt if i wasnt i probably woudnt have even tried. i get it now....

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Chris you sound like your doing some positive changes. Keep going. That is the best thing you can do. You've heard the saying no pain no gain. It doesn't only mean in the exercise sense. It also applies to love, life and getting what you really want