I'm sure if her feelings changed she could move on. I don't know so much about forgetting all about you. I don't think it's that cut and dry. I never forget those guys who have left my life some willingly and some by force ;) I've learned lessons from all of them and all of those relationships have taught me something new about myself and what I need and want. So no, I don't imagine she would ever forget all about you.

It's a process here. Its hard to keep up with being "fine" all day and having things not bother you that do bother you. Its draining. Its only expected for you to feel that.

Reread your thread and see how all over the place you are with your speculations. Leave her alone and focus on you as she will not forget you, but wishes to move in another direction, and you must accept that and deal with your feelings and get your own life.