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Originally Posted by dreamangel226

Anyway it took me only 6 wks to save for a security deposit (we lived together) for my own apt. He went to work one day and while he was there, I moved my stuff out. When he came home, I was gone.

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I like your style. You could've dragged it out for six months or six years and the result would have been the same, except for your wasted time and life. Better to pull the tape off quick and get it over with.

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Originally Posted by excon

Hello DJ:

I dunno. Maybe if some long term relationships started acting like ho's in the bedroom, your guys wouldn't leave.

excon

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I'm sure that is true, I for one thought things were great in the bedroom. His reactions seemed to indicate it was. But what about the other aspects of life. Like going fishing together and watching Football on Sunday or any one of the hundreds of things we loved doing together. All the people that know this girl says she's a complete idiot and babbels on and on about nothing because she's a dumba$$. She might think she can keep him in bed all the time but when his Football game comes on she better get out of the way.

Hello.

Sending you a Great Big Hug.

Many Men hit their 40's and get scared that life has passed them over. Most of them deal with it by starting a hobby or maybe doing a little more flirting to make them feel wanted. The ones that can't control their lower head, do as your husband has done. Its not all about sex its them trying to regain something they think they lost.

I know its not going to help right now but the chances of them staying to get her is slim to none. The only question is do you let him come back when he begs...

Dennis777

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Originally Posted by Dennis777

Hello.

Sending you a Great Big Hug.

Many Men hit their 40's and get scared that life has passed them over. Most of them deal with it by starting a hobby or maybe doing a little more flirting to make them feel wanted. The ones that can't control their lower head, do as your husband has done. Its not all about sex its them trying to regain something they think they lost.

I know its not going to help right now but the chances of them staying to get her is slim to none. The only question is do you let him come back when he begs...

Dennis777

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Good Point Dennis but what if he's 25 and not 40 Is it basically the same? And about letting him come back if he begs, that's the one million dollar question. He hasn't tried to come back so I guess I'm not sure what I would do at this point.

It could be because they just want to get into another girls pants or they are just plain asses.

Maybe you're the only one who thinks it's a good relationship. Never speak for the partner who obviously has different ideas. And before you list all the things that you do for him, it doesn't matter. That's why he is gone.

Hello.

Depending on what he has gone through in his life, 25 is a little young to be looking back at his life because his life is just starting.

I have the feeling that you had your head in the sand so you didn't see the problems he was having. Its not your fault that he was unhappy, now you have the chance to find real Love with your Mr. Right, he will be the Man that adds to your life, that makes you feel good about yourself and others, that gives more then he takes.

Dennis777

At 35 years old you chose a guy of 20?!

I guess subconciously you did not want commitment and this is what you have now ended up getting.

<cough>boy toy</cough>