Yea but the problem is that she now said she wants to go out with me and my best friend I am really really WORRIED

Go out as in date? Or go out as in hang out?

Umm dinner then going to the movies. Should I say no just you and me or what?

If they don't like each other, why does she want him to come along?

She sounds like a very confused girl, and until she knows what she wants, she shouldn't be stringing you along.

No but should I say no because I don't know if she wants 2 apologize but she also said that she will bring a friend for him but y the heck would she want him to come.

That was my question, why does she want him to come? You need to ask her this before you agree or disagree.

I just asked her and she said that she wants 2 become better friends with him because she doesn't want anything to happen to us hateing each other

Sounds like a legitimate reason, but it still sounds to me like she is confused and stringing you along.

If you agree to this, be alert as to what is going on around you between them.

Has anyone asked him about this little date? He may not even want to go.

He says he wants to go. Hmm I just asked her if she will be fine about me kissing her. She said it will be fine so I don't know why she didn't want to get kissed earlier. I think it was just because she doesn't want to be the only one I guess

Just be honest with her and tell her this whole situation is confusing you. Ask her what she wants, and try to help her the best you can.

Ummm well I just asked her that and she said that she wants me to go in her house later 4 some "fun" not sex but fingering that is just good for me. I don't understand what is up with that all of a sudden.

I meant what she wants emotionally, who she wants, etc.

She needs to be more open, honest and upfront with you.

Haha yea that's what I told her afterwards she just said nothing hmmm.

In my opinion, it sounds like you could do better. It sounds like she needs some time to think things through, because it doesn't sound like she knows what she wants as of right now.

Yea but the thing is that she had a death in the family and I know that is contributing towards it I think what I am going to do is just give her some time off. Her family member died about a month ago but she is still sad and I have had to try to keep her mind off it. I feel really bad about it. I am not going to do anything really sexual because I know she is really off and I don't know if she really wants that.

How old are you guys?

Ummm y do u want 2 know?

With all of the issues going on in her life right now, it sounds to me like giving her some time and space is a good idea. When she is ready, she will come back. If she doesn't want to be with you, its for the best, so you can move on and find someone else.

How old are you?

I think it could make a difference to the advise we can give you.