Ask Me Help Desk - My girlfriend is a Stripper!

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Originally Posted by scorpio11

I think it's time for you to have a serious talk about it. I am in the business and my new boyfriend hates what I do.I do it for the money. I am a single mom with kids. Your girlfriend doesn't sound like she has that kind of responsibility. Maybe you should tell her how you feel and see what she says. If she really loves you as much as you love her, she will get out of the business. I know a lot of young girls in this business that do it more to boost their egos and glamourize it by taking all these FREE trips. You're right honey, nothing is free. Take it from me. I know.

Hello Scorpio11,

So glad to see your quote. I was previously with a company for four years working from home and they have now gone out of business. I have always considered stripping and was hired once and walked away. I want to get into it for the flexibility... I am not an office person and want as much time with my kids as possible. I just would love to visit with you more about it. If your willing please reply. I am a scorpio as well!! LOL

Well my friend I'm in your same shoe's she won't hang around me with my friends or hers and she's always private won't talk about anything I have asked her to leave once she did but came back I've packed her things and told her to leave its been 3 days and she won't leave this girl is nuts she always thinks that I'm cheating which I'm not and calls me 60 times a day I should have listen to my inner self telling me to see her from time to time instead of getting involve with her trust me there are plenty of good women out their...

I live with one, they are a different mentality and things to them are not the same as for you. It is a one way street. You will never be without drama and hissy fits. If she left for twoi weeks just consider what she does, she sells he body for a living. She tells you she is different, she doesn't do what all the other strippers do, bull. She does exactly what they all do, strip and sell their bodies for money. If the money is just a little more they perform oral sex, little more and sexual intercourse in the club, little more and they let folks photograph them while having sex with them. They will say "but there is nothing to it, it is for money" to them it is nothing, but if you hgave sex with another you have coimmitted a sin against stripperkind...

Get away unless you are a swinger and like your girlfriend having sex with hundreds of men. And let me tell you, stripping for money, grinding tee tee's in the bar IS SEX and prostitution. If you don't like it get away, it isn't going to stop.

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Originally Posted by genki-dama

OMG, ok I really love her but it's really hard to deal with this stress!! Basically my question is that in the end it's about my boundries right, what i can take or allow or not take? The thing is it didnt bother me until recently thou, so i am confused. She is a model also, she has alot of "high-class firends" where she gets to go on trips all the time and people buy her things, just last week she went on a cruise to Jamica, and she tells me that she never has to pay for any of these things. And it hard to believe that the people would jsut do that and not want something in return, lets face it the world isnt so nice anymore, at least not that nice. She wont allow me to spend time with her & her friends and she wont tell me a reason. She is very private about things also and a couple months ago she just vanished for 2 weeks, no calls, and i could not call her, (phone didnt work) and when she came back all she said to me was "I just lost touch with reality, im sorry but im back". I've been searching for a answer for awhile now and I cannot find one, cause my heart (which loves her) is fighting my mind (which doubts her). She tells me she loves me and when we can actually be together she shows it also. So what's a guy to do? I know stripping is her job, so why am i feeling so sad about it now? Sorry for typos and such i was in a hurry before i go to work , have nice day all.

Hey dude. Well I had a friend who did the same thing for a living. She did have "offers" but she declined. She is probably just really getting into the life of lugsury and doesn't want you to feel left out of the free stuff. A girl in her job could easly make $4000.00 a week. That went to jessicas head really fast.
The bad news is there is also a %50 chance that the worst is happening. Have you seen for yourself the place ware she works? Have you talked to her boss or coworkers?
If she dose love you, I think you have a right to know. But try asking her first.
Good luck bro
p.s. disapearing for two weeks could be for any reason. I wouldn't loose sleep over it.