Someone said that if he's sorry than he would have told you about it. Not necessarily... what if he did it, felt horrible, and knows he would never do it again so he doesn't want to tell you because he doesn't want to lose u. I've been cheated on once (if uve seen the movie swim fan.. it was a similar situation).. and I've cheated once as well thinking it would make me feel better. But it didn't... and I would NEVER cheat again.. I'm disgusted and ashamed of myself. So once a cheater always a cheater is not true. And I do trust that my fiancé wouldn't cheat again. There are some people that change.

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Originally Posted by Williams925

someone said that if he's sorry than he would of told u about it. Not necessarily... what if he did it, felt horrible, and knows he would never do it again so he doesnt want to tell u cos he doesnt wanna lose u. i've been cheated on once (if uve seen the movie swim fan..it was a similar situation).. and ive cheated once as well thinking it would make me feel better. but it didnt... and i would NEVER cheat again.. im disgusted and ashamed of myself. So once a cheater always a cheater is not true. and i do trust that my fiance wouldnt cheat again. there are some ppl that change.

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I totally agree with you Williams. Saying once a cheater always a cheater is to generalized. This could've been a one time screw up.

Haha it was a one time screw up that's for sure

Hmm ziggy, I can't help but feel we are in the same boat. My boyfriend of five months admitted to me what he did. He got a message from an ex that he still regularly talked to. She wanted to know if he wanted to "catch up" after not talking to him in about two months. I agreed to let him go and had a few words for him when he got home. About a week later, he tells me everything. There was alcohol involved, and his weakness. I had a feeling that it was going to happen but, I told myself that it didn't matter. I forgave him, and I told him that the only thing that mattered was the fact that he came back to me. I love him dearly but I can't forget it as easy as forgiveness allows. It will always be there but so will I. Im willing to fight tooth and nail for this one :)

Hope this helps