But sometimes I also feel like I trie to be happy so she knows I can live with out her but when she sees me happy it seems like she's happy that I'm happy and is willing to let go but if I act sad it drives her away... its like a vicious circle

Uh no.

If she's happy that you are happy its flippin over. Over. Period.

You are using your being sad as a reason for her to stay??

That's screwed up manipulation.

Grow the hell up. Grow a pair.

Its hard. It hurts. But don't mindfu#K her cause it keeps her close.

Yes I'm being harsh. You need to be a man. Be an adult. Stop with the mind games. You are only screwing yourself and her over with them.

You need to chill I'm not saying I manipulated her like that she's the one still coming back when I let go I let got for the last week and she started with her whole myspace blog I didn't manipulate her at all

I give up.

Time to unsubscribe from this post. Going nowhere and never going to.

Good luck and goodbye.

We're not going to tell you what you want to hear, we have no miracle cures, we have only the truth and experience... take it or leave it...

Hi this is my first time ever on this site I was looking for a way to "win my girl friend back":( bad idea on Google when this site poped up and am I ever glad it did because Iwas just like gofercakes sad and I wanted her back so badly because I two am young just turned 18 :) and well I was really looking for a way to win her back I came on this site vary sad but after reading what every one has been saying I relize that I have been doing all the wrong things and I would really like to thank mostly KP but all of you as well for helpng me see that I should just leave it alone but the only thing is that I am still going to be her friend lol and that you should know that you at least helped one person with this whole thing :D and that I am vary vary happy now THANK YOU SO VARY MUCH for everything you said

Hey reality check. Get a life. You don't win anyone back. Get a life happy by yourself. That is far better! 16/17 common... Be realistic here. Sorry!!