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  • Aug 5, 2007, 11:57 PM
    PinkyStar
    Technically anything over 3 is binge drinking... but once you go to college people drink A LOT more than that... so five didn't really seem like a big deal, I've drank that before with a much different effect, I think it was the not eating real food that did me in
    p.s. I like school!
  • Aug 5, 2007, 11:58 PM
    cal823
    If its enough to get you drunk or affect your choices in a negative way, then drink less than that.
  • Aug 6, 2007, 12:07 AM
    PinkyStar
    I have no desire to be single, I love him, and I want to be with him... he totally understands if I want to go out with friends, that's never been a problem, but I don't know how's he's going to be now, I just hope he can trust me still, because it's impossib;e to have a relationship without trust...
  • Aug 6, 2007, 12:12 AM
    thadevilsadvocate
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by PinkyStar
    i'll ask him if i gave up drinking for a while if it would help ease his mind, but i don't think it will...i really don't want to


    You may not want to be single, but you also don't want to give up drinking. That is what I mean when I say that you need to think about whether that is something that you are willing to give up for a long time... what took place that night, happened for a reason. It could be many things, but you can't bank on the fact that the reason it happened is to show to let you know you need to not drink so much... you need to figure that out first... you may not be able to figure it out right now, or today or in tomorrow... but in time, something will jump out and hit you in the face.

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