Do I have a chance to get my ex boyfriend back?
Hello. Thank you so much for taking the time to read my question. My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 2 months ago because I was very jealous and paranoid. I questioned the poor guy about anything and everything and it lead to us fighting 2 or 3 times a day. He loved me more than anything, but he was always mad at me and just had to end the relationship. His excuse was "I don't have the urge to put any effort in a relationship with you because you caused me so much grief". Andy is a very drama free and laid back person. He is insensitive and doesn't express his emotions very well.
About a month after we broke up, I asked him to come over and he refused. He told me that it was done and over, he was moving, on and everyday gets easier for him. Mind you, he was hanging out with his guy friend EVERYDAY at the time. He told me we would not be hanging out anymore and I would probably see him on our 10th year reunion. The next day he called me 4 times in an hour to apologize, but I didn't answer the phone. Andy never apologizes for anything so secretly it meant a lot to me. I didn't see him for an entire month after that conversation. We just started hanging out again about 3 weeks ago. Whenever I call him he is quick to answer the phone and if I text message him he usually responds.
Here is where the confusion begins. Sometimes he acts like he wants to be with me and other times he acts like he doesn't. When we hang out he treats me just like he did when we were dating. He talks to me the same and even baby talks me sometimes just like he used to. We we first started getting physical after the breakup he would always make comments like "We shouldn't be doing this cause we aren't dating" "I don't want to lead you on" and "We can't kiss cause its to personal". Well lately he hasn't made those comments and has been very affectionate. I actually thought we were going to get back together a few times cause he was so nice to me. When we are sharing a close moment he looks me in the eyes and sometimes he makes comments about how attrractive I am. The other night he held me so close that I actually woke up sticky and sweaty where our bodies were touching. He rubs my face and my hair every now and then which is a sign of loving someone in my opinion.
Sometimes Andy acts the complete opposite. He acts like I am annoying and doesn't seem thrilled to be around me. He will answer the phone calls and respond to text messages, but when I made plans for him to come over tonight he acted like he wasn't to interested. He is going to come over I guess. Anyway... when it comes to being affectionate I have to make the first move and he doesn't cuddle me or kiss me. If I cuddle him or act affectionate toward him he doesn't mind, but like I said I have to make the first move.
I guess I don't know if Andy still loves me and is interested in me or if he is feeling the opposite. I want to be with him so bad, but I don't know if he ever wants to be with me again. Sometimes I feel like he does and is just testing the waters to make sure things aren't going to be the same and other times I feel like he just wants someone to hang out with. From my knowledge, he hasn't and currently is not seeing anyone else. I don't even think he has hung out with another girl. Am I wasting my time or do I have a chance?
