Well you should not disobey your father. All he is trying to do is protect his daughter. He remembers what it was like to be a 16 year old boy and I'm sure he's concerned that making out will lead to sex and he doesn't even want to think about that. Your dad is just freaking that your growing up, it happens with dad's.

You are young yes but so am I. Your dad probably is worried about you, does not want to see you getting hurt etc. His little girl growing up so quick with a boy on the scene. He probably realises that love hurts and has seen things go wrong. Perhaps It would be worth having a conversation with your father if he is open to conversing in a mature way with you about the way you feel about him.

I don't know what the legal age etc for your country but I am sure your old enough now to be able to choose yourself who you wish to see? Make your own choices in life and learn from your mistakes if you so make them.

Don't hurt the guy your with end it soon if you don't feel strong and are not willing to work at your current relationship. That would be emotionally cheating in a way what your doing with your ex at the moment.

Back off a bit from him if your dad (After having a chat) will not let you see him. Tell him Its not wize that you two do not see each other for a while. It will be hard but what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and hey plenty more years of life left yet!

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