Thanks, Skell.

I realize this is a culture difference between us.

It's my personal choice, I'd like to keep my purity to my beloved future husband, it's a gift to him. It shows my respect,responsibility and LOVE. I hope he'd appreciate it.:)

I'm a guy, and the one hard and fast rule I have about dating is no virgins.

I'm a busy man, and I don't have time for all of the first-time drama. The short-term sexual addiction, the emotional obsession, the tendency to basically put everything in your life below the sex life (sacrificing job, family, other friends, everything for a still-new relationship)... all of that is stuff that I've been through myself, and in the past been through with three different women. I'm simply not doing it again.

It's not about the virginity itself, it's about what goes on in the mind when virginity is lost.

That's just me, though.

Why love has to be involved with sex and other physical contacts?

It's a feeling between two hearts... you heart and mind are together, that's way more important than anything else.

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Originally Posted by jasonpeace

jasonpeace disagrees: ur definition of moral is TOO wide and r u a racist talking about women rights and sweatshops??

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So human rights aren't tied to morality? A moral person should not be concerned about the abuse? Are you kidding me?

Calling me a racist because I question, when its stated that other countries are more moral because of sexual tendencies, whether its OK that in some of those same countries human rights might sometimes be treaded on?

Really?? Wow. Really?? So morality has to do with the ability to keep it in your pants and that's it? Nice perspective on life there buddy.

You are the first person to ever call me racist because I talk about humans rights being tied to morality. Its sad when someone so quickly uses that card to try to get an upper hand in a disagreement. If that's all you got, well, I'm not impressed.