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  • Jul 30, 2007, 02:34 PM
    s_cianci
    Let's put it this way ; why do you need to have it? In this day and age, with identity theft being such a serious problem and the potential consequences that could result, one has to be careful to guard his passwords carefully. Sharing them with anyone, even a significant other, really isn't prudent. Not that you'd deliberately betray his confidence, but once he reveals them to you, there's always the chance that someone else could get a hold of them. The more people that have access to such information, the more troublesome it could become. Have you given him your information? I'd certainly advise you not to, for the reasons I've just described. I really don't think that this is a relationship issue, but rather sound and prudent guarding of one's privacy.
  • Jul 30, 2007, 02:44 PM
    mahm6266
    How did u know I was muslim?
  • Jul 30, 2007, 02:48 PM
    Haplo
    Educated decision, I would imagine. Not many religions have predetermined arranged marriages.
  • Jul 30, 2007, 03:18 PM
    bushg
    I figured he was muslim, My niece was married to a muslim man he was allowed to marry her because his father was dead . His cousins were different story. Their father sent them back to Jordan after he arranged their marriages. I saw a few American girls with broken hearts because of this. Also your name has a Muslim sound, I figured it was in honor of him. Is he Muslim?
  • Jul 30, 2007, 04:04 PM
    mahm6266
    We both are muslim. I said he is from a different cast because even though we are both muslim he has his own little community thingy (long story) and basically if I marry him I would have to "convert" into what he is. Its called being an Ahmadi. But yea even so my parents won't ever accept him. And plus muslim families don't really believe in love marriages.
  • Jul 30, 2007, 04:59 PM
    bushg
    Mahm I do not understand how you can go into a relationship knowing that you could never get married, Or that for whatever reason you will not be accepted by his family and he will abide by their rules. So your family will find you a husband when the time comes? I guess that is why you entered this relationship because you have a true understanding. I guess I can accept that, although I find that very sad.
  • Jul 30, 2007, 06:00 PM
    happylady123
    Things like passwords are not important, I have been with my b/f for 4 years and he will not let me know his passwords, I really don't care anymore. At 1st I did, but I trust him, and if you trust each other it shouldn't matter. Everyone needs something of their own, it doesn't mean they are hiding anything. But if it is that big of a deal ask your partner why he won't tell you.
  • Jul 30, 2007, 06:07 PM
    mahm6266
    Thanks guys. He already gave it to me. And I'm over it.

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