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Do you feel better now that you got that all out of your system? Good... with this view on relationships and men... you seem as though you have had a few bad experiences. You also have expectations that the man in your life will always fail you in some way. You may need to reevaluate your view if you ever intend to have a healthy relationship.
OK, this from a man's point of view:
In this world, there are three things we should never believe, namely, womens' promises, womens' emotions, and womens' excuses. If she gives you some life-long promise, that will be because she is not confident about your relationship; if she says to you that you are the man she loves most in her life, that will indicate that she has said the same thing to others; if she breaks her promises and gives you several excuses for that, please don't believe her. Women are good at making up excuses, and all the reasons can be summarized to only that ; excuses.
Women might be very sincere when promising, but are also serious when leaving. When she no longer loves you, she has changed her mind totally. But she would just think that all that you had which once attracted her to you has disappeared.
Never try to win love from a person who is above the age of 35 , never married before, and so far hasn't had a fixed boyfriend. Such women might either lack love ability or have something wrong with their hearts. If you insist on loving such women, you would become the person who is hurt finally.
If you are interested in a woman, just remember never show off your intelligence in front of her. If she is a stupid woman, she would not understand your wisdom. And if she is a wise woman, she herself is clever enough, so she is tired of clever men. But if you still want to let her know you are clever, when imparting any of your wisdom to her, please don't forget to say to her "But you are so clever, you must already know that."
If you want to know whether a woman loves you or not, just see whether she wants to let you be involved in her world. She might introduce you to her family and friends. If she doesn't introduce you to her parents, that means she doesn't love you at all. Don't be lied to. But if you have been lied to, she'll want you to just think that she was drunk when it happened.
When a woman meets a man, there is just one idea in a woman's heart, namely, to sleep with him.
If you think some woman is nice, and think you love her, please now pinch your leg. If you could not feel pain, congratulations ; you are still dreaming. Please wake up.
Women always treat men well in the beginning and dump them in the end. If you are a woman who is thinking of breaking up with a man now, please think of a good excuse.
Don't be content with her chasing after you for a long time. You had better figure out how often she calls you and visits you. If she does so every other week, please be careful! She doesn't do that because of loving you, but for achieving her own dreams.
If she is not nice to you, then break up with her absolutely. But please do that in a gentle manner because there would be a difference between gently breaking up and angrily breaking up. The former is due to her fault, but the latter is due to your personality.
Please let her feel sorry more. They don't know how to cherish what they have and just believe that what's valuable is what they could not have. Let her lose you and let her have her regrets.
Don't be moved by her feeling guilty. According to psychology, when she feels guilty, she has repulsed you in her unconsciousness.
Every man should be lied to by a woman once or twice. If it happens more than that, then she is not a woman but a female pig.
When a woman says "I like you", that doesn't mean she loves you; when a woman says "I love you", that doesn't mean she will marry you; when a woman marries you, that doesn't mean she will be nice to you forever; when a woman says she will be nice to you forever, she is lying. All that means is she is lonely and weary.
Women are such animals whose appearance are like that of peahens, whose temper are like that of she-bulls, and whose actions are like that some horses' (rear ends.)
Hate to break it to you my friend, but that's a two-way street. In my experience, far more women are guilty of the things you complain of than are men, but that's just based on my own experiences. Actually I really didn't plagarize this, despite appearances, as I had to make many corrections in grammar and diction in order to make this readable and convey the message that (I believe) you intended to convey. I'm sure I didn't find them all as I have limited time to work with. You obviously aren't one of those "wise women" you complain about in your thread. I guess you don't understand mine or anyone else's wisdom.
When translating the article from German, I feel there might be some complaints and disagreements arising.
This is not what I think.
I just want to know what your opinions after reading it.
I am sorry for all. Sorry for skell, tal, and many people's concerns. And thank you all.
Just hope no woman or man would someday feel the same way as in this article.
So this post was an article and not a question or a rant? Bad form here really bad form.
Why did you post it then?
I want to know what you think. I don't know whether it is true.
There must be some people think the same as the writer in the article.
Subscribe,
Why do you want to be bitter like that?Quote:
But I hope someday I could be such bitter.
I think the writer of this article should be a good woman. But her heart is fragile.
People who can write such a bitter article should be clever too, but just once focused on the wrong things much.
Bitterness might not be a bad thing.
Haha! I see where you're coming from... but we must keep in mind that not all men are bad. Some are just worse then others. Trust me, as a girl who has had her heart ripped out & stomped on her fair share of times, there really are great guys out there:)
I am a god among men. :DQuote:
On some other forums, they call this thread a building. I think it funny. If my post here is a building, I am the owner of this building. Innocent skell is on the first floor, and innocent people go on to make my building high.
Just differently I am a sad owner than the real owner. I won't rent it to anyone else. I wish all of you would be happy and continue being happy. Hope no one will ever live my establishment here.
I think serena meant to post an article she read somewhere in German and get our thoughts. Granted she didn't explain it very clearly however I know there was no harm intended.
I think we need to cut her some slack here as it appears that English may not be her first language.
Not so much bad form J_9. Just lack of understanding of how she should have structured this thread so we could understand.
So do we get our deposit back? Before you answer there is always Judge Judy!!
Your wrong some guys are nice you just haven't found one...
80% of guys I know are decent and nice. Me included :)
Not all men fit the descriptions you laid out. Those generalizations are probably based on a bad experience- whether it was you personally or someone very close to you. But regardless, it's not ethical to point the fingers towards all men as being savages. Sometimes us women aren't the greatest when it comes to relationships either. We have just as many faults as they do. Anyway, good luck in the future!
I have mostly guy friends... and they all treat me with more love and respect then half my gal friends. Honestly, I hope your look on men changes soon... because they're actually realllly great when you meet the right ones.:D
I'm a guy, and I could say a lot of negative, terrible things about chicks from my experiences! I've been hurt, dumped, lied to, manipulated, etc by you lot, but I don't blame the whole gender for it.
cal.. you are very wise...... and I appologize for all of your suffering on the behalf of woman kind:)
Don't judge all books by their cover. Don't compare one person to everyone else. Otherwise you fall into a pattern of negative and rather cynical way of thinking. No matter how many times you are let down or burned, don't give up hope, there will be a time for you that a good person will show up.
I do believe there are a lot of bad eggs but there are many good eggs too and there are those that gel better (so to speak).
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