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  • Jul 18, 2007, 03:44 PM
    zooropa1985
    You know I been thinking about it today and I came to realise something.

    Before when we first split I thought it was my fault, that I had done something wrong, I made a few mistakes yes but nothing serious, I always wondered why she didn't want to talk about it or meet me to just talk, I mean if you love someone you try your best to work at it. I blamed myself for everything.

    But now I know that it wasn't me, it was her, she's the one that did something wrong, maybe she did cheat maybe she didn't, guess I will never know but its good to know that it wasn't all me and my fault.

    My only gripe was that she was with the ex that she told me over and over again that she hated, had she been with anyone else then it would have been cool, but him.

    Then when I do ask she just gives me this look of dusgust, and they walk off together, I'm not in love or hung up I'm just kind of pissed off at her.

    By the way from what I been hearing she's been out with a few guys after we split, none of my business I know but she's changed.

    Sorry if this is boring you lol
  • Jul 18, 2007, 05:20 PM
    saraispiel19
    yαwn
  • Jul 18, 2007, 05:23 PM
    zooropa1985
    Aww but I love you sarai lol
  • Jul 18, 2007, 05:24 PM
    saraispiel19
    hα hα you know I'm kiddin'-- but seriously dude who is it you reαlly wαnt? New girl or "the ex"
  • Jul 18, 2007, 05:27 PM
    zooropa1985
    Well I don't have a choice, I'm not getting the ex back, I don't want her back but I do feel betrayed by her, that's all.
  • Jul 18, 2007, 05:38 PM
    saraispiel19
    Thαts αll pαrt of the breαk-up... now it's time for closure
  • Jul 19, 2007, 06:23 AM
    emopunk7
    Sarai... Help him get over her... Show him what's good and take a trip to him. Show him a REALLY GOOD TIME. Then he will be fine... (kidding of course, but it would surely work... Think about it. You'd be doing the world a hell of good!)
  • Jul 19, 2007, 06:34 AM
    rol
    <Problem is guys its not what the guy looks like it how he makes them feel. Problem is you two guys were nice and considerate where these girls wanted a jerk its natural that's why they go for these guys they don't really give a crap and keep her guessing all the time... >

    This is so true for the 20s , all I wanted was a jerk.
    After the age of 29 I got some sense, now I see lovely guys of 21-26 and think they are so lovely and sweet and would make great boyfriends, but they are too young of course.

    Its kind of sad that a nice guy feels he has to change into a jerk.

    Don't.

    Just be yourself.
  • Jul 19, 2007, 06:43 AM
    nicespringgirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by rol
    <Problem is guys its not what the guy looks like it how he makes them feel. Problem is you two guys were nice and considerate where these girls wanted a jerk its natural thats why they go for these guys they dont really give a crap and keep her guessing all the time...>

    this is so true for the 20s , all i wanted was a jerk.
    After the age of 29 i got some sense, now i see lovely guys of 21-26 and think they are so lovely and sweet and would make great boyfriends, but they are too young of course.

    its kind of sad that a nice guy feels he has to change into a jerk.

    Dont.

    Just be yourself.

    Be yourself, and the smart girls start with the right things. Real smart girl will like a good guy! Trust me!
  • Jul 19, 2007, 07:45 AM
    saraispiel19
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by emopunk7
    Sarai...Help him get over her...Show him what's good and take a trip to him. Show him a REALLY GOOD TIME. Then he will be fine....(kidding of course, but it would surely work...Think about it. You'd be doing the world a hell of good!)


    Sick-o I'm mαrried! hαhα mαybe my husbαnd could tell him how much of α good time he gets;)
  • Jul 19, 2007, 07:49 AM
    emopunk7
    Sick-o you have no pics of your man... When are you getting divorced? I need a chance with you... lol... jk
  • Jul 19, 2007, 07:57 AM
    saraispiel19
    Lol hαhα never-- I'm just concided αnd α spot light hog:( I wαnt αll the αttention ::evil giggle:: here's α pic of us being how we αre αll the time http://photo.ringo.com/215/215302685O028528507.jpg
  • Jul 19, 2007, 08:04 AM
    emopunk7
    You are bloody gorgeous!
  • Jul 19, 2007, 08:05 AM
    saraispiel19
    Lol αre you looking αt the right picture?! hαhαα!! Here's αnother : http://photo.ringo.com/161/161901190O714208432.jpg
  • Jul 19, 2007, 08:13 AM
    emopunk7
    Your husband looks stoned and you look BLOODY GORGEOUS!
  • Jul 19, 2007, 08:17 AM
    saraispiel19
    hαhα thαnks I guess-- lol we we're doing our "cool" look...
  • Jul 19, 2007, 08:19 AM
    emopunk7
    Were, not we're
  • Jul 19, 2007, 08:22 AM
    saraispiel19
    Oh did I tell you I wαs dumb too
  • Jul 19, 2007, 09:08 AM
    emopunk7
    No you're not. Whatever.
  • Jul 19, 2007, 09:12 AM
    nicespringgirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by saraispiel19
    lol αre you looking αt the right picture??!? hαhαα!!!!!!!! heres αnother : http://photo.ringo.com/161/161901190O714208432.jpg

    LOL, cute, how old are you guys?

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