This might not mean much... but today she hasn't been online at all so I went under a different name that I have and she in fact was on just had me blocked. Good/bad? Lol I'm such a loser I know I should just move on but I'm not one to meet a lot of girls and I'm probably more attached to this girl that I should be.

Very bad.

What the hell did you?

You had to have smothered the hell out of her. Women hate that.

Leave this gal alone now!! No contact - please.

QUIT using the IM. No more text messages with woman. Obviously you contacted her 10 times a day, every day.

"i'm prolly more attached to this girl that i should be." - that's your freaking problem - build bearriers, be causcious going forward, get a life, woman are only a part of it, you put too much iportance o nthis woman and she ran.

Bud!

You ask for advice but you don't use it! Wildcat is so right on here:
"The best way to play this thing is simply to proceed on the assumption that she DOES like you, until she actually turns you away in some act of rejection. And when THAT happens, you simply back off for a spell and DON'T show any signs of being fazed by it...When she senses that you enjoy her company but are not DEPENDENT upon her attention or reciprocation of feelings, her feelings for you will begin to grow stronger. A girl's feelings can be up and down like the ocean waves. Don't gauge your approach on what whimsical emotion she may be feeling at some particular moment. Be steady."

Don't be a jerk, but don't be so needy. Fill up your life!!

Seriously now, leave her alone. She ASKED you to leave her alone. Don't you have any resepct for her? For yourself?

well yeah I didn't plan on talking to her for a few weeks but I didn't expect her to do that... =P

You know I really do like responding to the guy heartache messages more than the girls. It's refreshing to hear that men have emotions and can actually care about women. I don't wish you and your gender any pain, but for what you all have caused me at different times, I am heartened that some of you do put it all out there and let yourself love.
Things will get better. Really.

I probably wouldn't be so down about it if I would just meet more women. But that doesn't happen as often as I would want it to. No place here I could really go.

I heard you! I'm hardly ever interested in anyone, so when I am I fall really hard. You know, if you've got a crush on say, 15 people in a year, and I only have one, I crush 15 times as hard. It's tough. I feel like I never meet anyone either. I live in a small town.

Keep your head up.

I think something I keep FORGETTING to mention - YOU got to LOVE yourself FIRST. IF you don't LOVE yourself - how can anyone else love you. Learn to love yourself!

Dude - I advise NOT contacting her at all. Ever. IF she happens to contact you - then OK. I usaully never say this - but it sounds like you totally annoyed the hell out of her - right?

Hmm she unblocked me when I got home from a party but I'm not going to talk to her :D

If she wants to engage conversation she will... just like you said. + I'm a little tipsy and don't want to say something bad. ;)

And you know what... I know she is wondering what I'm doing now since I'm not waiting on her. Wish I could dive right into that mind of hers. I used to wait for her to come home and what not... now I just go out... and if my friends are busy I go out anyway by myself and find something to do. To be honest this is how I was before I went out with her. You're right man, living your life how it should be is so much better then waiting on someone that should be "a part of your life."

Don't contact her! Don't screw this up.

Pretend you do not have a phone. Be strong!

I've been talking to one of her friends lately... and she said something like... "things would prolly be better if i was friends with her friends"

Not like I never said I wouldn't... she just never really gave me any chances to do so. So I figure I'd start doing so. Bad idea? I don't think so.