things do get easier my x used 2 lie to me all the time he wouldn't let me out he basically controlled me and he was always lyin 2 try and get out of the truth!! What you have to do is move on I know its hard it's the hardest thing you could ever do you just want that love back and you think that no matter what you will never find that love again but its not true.. it takes time that I agree on but its not the end of the world. Your not with her for a very good reason don't let her get you down and don't turn to drink because that's what my ex did when we broke up whilst I got on with my lyf the thing I can suggest you doing is going to talk to someone it helpd me!! It feels lyk you lost apart of you but it does get better

Listen up, Dump the dame, get a life, and get on with it. Get another babe and make the first one jealous. Men aren't supposed to have wussie emotions about a dang F E M A L E. What's the matter with you? Go get a couple of your buddies and buy some beer and go bowling for a couple weekends. And don't send her flowers! Unless it's Dead Roses. Or stems. When you going to figure out, if she is going to treat you like this, you don't need her?

Dammit, better yet, buy a round trip ticket to Manila, and go hang out in Angeles City for a couple weeks.

I guarantee you will return a changed man. Maybe even change into a REAL man. Some.

Hey hope your keeping your chin up.
You say you guys had debtb problems and you told her to go and take a break. Them... I would think if you were in a relationship and with 2 kids, that you should have pulled together and not asked her to leave. She prob thought it was over.
Now to be fair she sounds like a messed up girl, who decided to get back at you and hurt you by jumping into bed with another man.
U are bettert off without her, think twice next time you move in with an girl. And also it takes time to know someone. And love means loving them for their good points and bad points. Next time you are in love, don't ask her to leave when you hit the bad points. That is when you pull together and try to see if you can help them, and will they help themselves.
Lastly drinking won't help. I would advise you to pull your life together. Work hard at your job. Don't fall apart, grown from this. One day you will be the one with a nice girl on your arm, don't seek revenge. You will end up bitter that way.like hera.

Fornication is sin. The penalty is death. You should be glad that your out, Don't feel jealous because every act of fornication just takes the lady and her unlucky partner further down the road that ends in eternal punishment in a lake of fire. If you love her just pray that she wakes up before its to late. As for yourself don't go there again Get right with God confess your sins to Him and repent. Once you have done this the One who created you will build you up , a new life. Pain can be a good thing sometimes it warns what you are doing is wrong!

Be strong man , I wish you never met that ***** turning your life upside down , be who you are man , and don't give her attention , love is blind , but it took you to that ***** who doesn't desereve to live, she is animal , you are better then her , and stronger too , don't be weak man , be strong , trust me she will end up suffring bad , her life will never ever going to take her happines she is looking for , by giving to many guys blow job , **** her , pull yoursel together and stay with your friends , I know all people will say to you easly move and stuff like that , but I would say burn all her memories , next time if you see her just smile and walk away , that all , you don't need nothing from her , just think about that you have dated a porn star ***** , be proud of yourself , and make yourself bussy , listen to eminem songs , it will help you, I'm going through also some bad love relationship I had , so man pullyourself together , don't let her make you weak, and I wish you the best , I wish I can talk to you easly face to face all the time , but this at least I can do , and I'm here for you any time you need man , you got so many friends in outside and this website too , so you are not alone man , you are not alone , stay away from love songs man. And refresh yourself no matter what it takes