No contact is difficult - I work with her!
I see what you're saying - and to a certain degree I agree. But (and I'm sure you have heard this before), she is actually a really shy, quiet girl who struggles to make friends.
She really does not seem the type to play games (although her friend may be! ). I really do believe she is confused. Maybe I'm being naïve, or maybe I simply care too much.
I'm not allowing myself to be played. I have not shown her any weakness - even though I may be feeling it. To the best of her knowledge, she thinks I'm cool. We've spoken maybe 3 times in 7 weeks, but nothing emotional or related to the relationship at all.