Geoff...

I heard a great quote recently... do you know who Carry Grant is - the actor?

Ultimately ladies man, gentleman, knew what do, put women in there place when they needed it, Affair to Remember, etc.

Well... the quote was... what would Carry Grant do?

DISAPPEAR!!

Hey would be the wuss waiting around for her. He knew there were so many other women. He knew every women is not perfect.

He'd move - you're doing the same. If she comes, she will.

He was also busy with other things - do not put her on a pedestal, not too much importance - he knows they could and can leave.