I can't believe it! Not calling or having any contact REALLY WORKED! After 25 days I sent a letter to him basically saying everything I said in my last post, about being demanding and needy etc. He must have gotten the letter yesturday morning. He called 4 of my phone numbers within 10 minutes but I didn't answer any of them. Finally another 15 minutes later he beeped in when I was talking to my best friend so I answered. We didn't talk about the relationship, just basically caught up and he asked me on a date. I'm going out of town for a few so I told him we could do it last night. He came, we shared a big tight hug and went to dinner. I did not bring up our relationship at all. We just caught up on more stuff. Does turn out though that he has been just working and depressed, but it seems he knew I was out with friends a lot (after week 1 I wasn't going to sit around having a pity party anymore). I did let him spend the night though (probably a mistake) but it was perfect. We have plans for when I get back as well as for a concert in a couple weeks. We will have to have a discussion about us soon and I don't know where this will lead but I know he still loves me and wants to be together. So Thank You ALL so much, and my advice to anyone else in this situation is... no matter how hard it is, DO NOT CALL