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  • Feb 28, 2010, 10:10 PM
    EmoPrincess

    I slightly hope he hits me soon
  • Feb 28, 2010, 10:34 PM
    ohsohappy

    I can understand that, but at the same time, it's really not good. I'd say anticipate it, but don't wish for it.
  • Feb 28, 2010, 10:37 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ohsohappy View Post
    I can understand that, but at the same time, it's really not good. I'd say anticipate it, but don't wish for it.


    Exactly! You could get hurt and we don't want that!
  • Feb 28, 2010, 10:37 PM
    EmoPrincess
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ohsohappy View Post
    I can understand that, but at the same time, it's really not good. I'd say anticipate it, but don't wish for it.

    Perhaps hope was the wrong word. Anticipate sounds much better
  • Feb 28, 2010, 10:52 PM
    ohsohappy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    perhaps hope was the wrong word. anticipate sounds much better

    It's a healthier mindset too.
  • Feb 28, 2010, 10:53 PM
    ohsohappy

    Your want isn't for him to hit you, it's for the opportunity to take action. That's why I undersntand.
  • Feb 28, 2010, 10:54 PM
    EmoPrincess

    Thank you all for everything so far. I just wanted to say that
  • Feb 28, 2010, 10:57 PM
    ohsohappy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    Thank you all for everything so far. I just wanted to say that

    You are very welcome my dear.
  • Feb 28, 2010, 10:58 PM
    EmoPrincess

    How common is child abuse? I figure I might as well post it here, else it'll be moved to here (as most do haha)
  • Feb 28, 2010, 11:16 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    How common is child abuse? I figure I might as well post it here, else it'll be moved to here (as most do haha)


    Look on the web or watch TV. It's horrible to think about the violence among family members.
  • Feb 28, 2010, 11:23 PM
    EmoPrincess

    I'm not quite sure what you mean
  • Feb 28, 2010, 11:29 PM
    ohsohappy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    I'm not quite sure what you mean

    She means that you can see it anywhere, watch the news or read the paper. It comes up a lot. And it never should
  • Feb 28, 2010, 11:30 PM
    EmoPrincess

    O but I mean statistically
  • Feb 28, 2010, 11:39 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ohsohappy View Post
    She means that you can see it anywhere, watch the news or read the paper. It comes up a lot. And it never should

    Look at Casey Anthony,Susan Smith, Andrea Yates. I could name a hundred. Spouses killing a wife or husband , example Scott Peterson. I'm sorry but I get so angry thinking about these people it makes me sick. In cases like theirs , DEATH PENALTY!
  • Feb 28, 2010, 11:43 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    o but i mean statistically


    What I am saying is go on the web and search for the statistics of child abuse. You are NOt going to like what you find. The statistics will horrify you.
  • Feb 28, 2010, 11:47 PM
    EmoPrincess

    1 in every 58?
  • Mar 1, 2010, 12:04 AM
    Kitkat22


    Child Abuse in America...
    Children are suffering from a hidden epidemic of child abuse and neglect. Over 3 million reports of child abuse are made every year in the United States; however, those reports can include multiple children. In 2007, approximately 5.8 million children were involved in an estimated 3.2 million child abuse reports and allegations.

    Law Enforcement, Courts, & Prisons: Crimes and Crime Rates

    295 - Crimes and Crime Rates by Type of Offense [Excel 47k] | [PDF 447k]

    296 - Crimes and Crime Rates by Type and Area: 2007 [Excel 35k] | [PDF 447k]

    297 - Crime Rates by State, 2006 and 2007, and by Type, 2007 [Excel 41k] | [PDF 448k]

    298 - Crime Rates by Type--Selected Large Cities: 2006 [Excel 51k] | [PDF 469k]

    299 - Murder Victims--Circumstances and Weapons Used or Cause of Death [Excel 44k] | [PDF 448k]

    300 - Murder Victims by Age, Sex, and Race: 2007 [Excel 38k] | [PDF 448k]

    301 - Homicide Trends [Excel 49k] | [PDF 448k]

    302 - Homicide Victims by Race and Sex [Excel 55k] | [PDF 463k]

    303 - Forcible Rape--Number and Rate [Excel 39k] | [PDF 458k]

    307 - Violence by Intimate Partners by Sex, 1995 to 2007, and by Type of Crime, 2007 [Excel 38k] | [PDF 450k]

    309 - Fraud and Identity Theft--Consumer Complaints by State: 2008 [Excel 38k] | [PDF 450k]

    312 - Hate Crimes--Number of Incidents, Offenses, Victims, and Known Offenders by Bias Motivation [Excel 42k] | [PDF 449k]

    313 - Hate Crimes Reported, by State: 2007 [Excel 42k] | [PDF 449k]

    321 - Law Enforcement Officers Killed and Assaulted [Excel 42k] | [PDF 465k]

    Man in East Midlands killed his two children aged three and four and committed suicide...

    An Alabama man is accused of killing his four young children...

    A man and his wife allegedly killed their three children in Orissa’s Bargarh district because they could not manage to feed them...

    In San-Zhong near Taipei, a man and his wife killed their two little boys, putting them in a sealed room filled with carbon monoxide, and committed suicide...




    Poverty, revenge, financial problems... all these reasons are silly enough to let the children breath their last.

    In an incident of infanticide in Tamil Nadu, a mother named Lakshmi squeezed the milky sap from an oleander shrub, mixed it with castor oil, and forced the poisonous potion down the new-born's throat. The baby bled from the nose, then died soon afterward...

    Andrea Yates, a mother of five who methodically drowned all of her children in a bathtub then calmly called police...

    News paper reports are shocking as well as alarming. Even though parental love is incomparable, there are several reported incidents of fillicide, child murder by parents. Most of the times the innocent children are murdered by their own parents for silliest reasons, and in several cases the kids were mere victims of the revenge of father or mother towards their partner. Some studies suggest that because of some sort of mental instability parents murder their own children.

    Parents killing their children is not rare. Statistics say that between three and five children are killed by their parents in the U.S. every day and more than 200 women kill their children in the U.S. every year. If it is the case with the highly civilised America, what would be the situation in other countries, especially in the third world countries.

    The parents who kill their children for whatever reasons, consider their children as a commodity, not for sure, as human beings. Thus they are slaughtered when parents cannot feed them, they are killed when parents are afraid of social problems, kids are murdered to satisfy the cheap revenge against their mother or father.


    This is the facts as horrible as they are.






    Statistics
  • Mar 1, 2010, 12:11 AM
    EmoPrincess

    The world is as twisted as I thought
  • Mar 1, 2010, 12:18 AM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    The world is as twisted as I thought

    Walk through the mall and watch a mom viciously jerk a child's arm or yell when the child wants to go in a different direction or is overtired or wants candy that a store temptingly displays at the checkout registers. Is that abuse? Abuse of a child, especially emotional abuse, is so subtle that we don't even notice it most of the time. And if it happens in public, one can only imagine what happens at home.
  • Mar 1, 2010, 12:19 AM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx View Post
    The world is as twisted as I thought

    You are one of the lucky ones, you're old enough to walk out and you are finally getting help. Some of these little children aren't old enough to fight for themselves. I'm proud of you! :):):)

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