Just a quick update, I woke up this morning with a missed call on my phone from my ex, I knew if I didn't reply to his text that he would phone me to see if my mobiles on, that's his little game x

Speak to your network provider-they can block his number as he is a nuisance caller.
And continue ignoring him.
Stay strong.x

So you don't advise me to text him and politely tell him to leave me alone.

Why has he still got my number when he wanted me gone

No more texts,calls or any kind of communication.
Again,don't buy into his attempts at playing games with you.
Ignore,ignore and ignore.

Absolutely not! What to get more aggravated, and get back to square one. It's over and you have moved on.

Repeat after me, Ignore, and delete!!

I have deleted the call and I will pretend that I never saw it - like I say I've come too far to play more of his games, he won't like me ignoring him but I need to think of me for once. He has made his choice and led in his many beds

Remember, you don't care Louise what he thinks. It's about you and you only. Everyday you will get stronger. Later on down the road you will look back and say what was I thinking.

I so hope your right sully123, at the mo I feel used and taken advantage of. I know and finally understand that I can only be miserable if I let him and that will never happen again. Im a lot stronger now that we have not been in contact with each other for nearly 3 weeks.

Thanks for all your words of advice, I'm going to follow them and keep strong!! :)

It just makes me angry that he tells me to stop contacting him and then texts and calls me as he pleases. Grrrrrrrrrrrr

Well grrr-but your anger is wasted on the j**k-save your feelings for somebody who deserves them.

Thanks amicon - I've come on leaps and bounds the past 2 weeks, I've been in touch with old schools friends, planning a holiday and generally looking forward to a fuller happier life.

p.s I can't believe I woke up to snow this morning - what a shock xx

Just wanted to keep you all informed as I haven't been around for a while, my ex texted me the other day and was calling me all these horrible names like a slag, whore, etc and said that I need to get myself down to the std clinic?? All because he found out I was with someone else now. I just don't understand? He says he don't love me and for me to stop calling him but then a few weeks down the track I get abuse like this. It really hurt me and set me back a lot, why would he call me these nasty names when he knows deep down I don't sleep around

Louise,you really need to do something about blocking his number.

You're perfectly fine for weeks then you allow his BS affect you again.

Ive said it before,I'll say it again,ignore the jerk.

Il try amicon (I didn't contact him for ages) and thought I was OK being friends but obviously not, he told me he loved me etc etc and I thought yes we can be friends and it will work out, then I get the texts (whore,slag etc) if he don't love me then why be bothered if I'm with someone else?

Il just ignore them and carry on xx

Expecting truth from a liar, is like using a spoon to dig a hole. Doesn't make sense nor get the job done.

What I don't understand is why you let his surprises through texting upset you still. You know he has the morals of that spoon I just mentioned?

Thanks Tal, I don't understand why he has this power over me, even though his words mean squat as he lies all the time I think everyone likes to be told they are loved even if he may not mean them.

The hurtful thing is that he called me a , whore, slag etc, even in anger would you really call those names to someone that you supposidly love?

I rang him yesterday to say stop contacting me and he was just nasty calling me weird etc, I said look why do you text me eh... do you love me? And he replied I thought I did and then said yes... I think I do yes?? Whay kind of an answer is that

You are a sensitive, emotional lady, I get that, that's why we are here for you to vent to.

>cyber hugs<

Yes,hugs from me too Lou-remember Jeremy Kyle?:-)

Count your blessings,you've got a good life.

Louise, stop calling him back. You come so far, and for some reason you let this idiot bother you. Stop giving in to him. Vent to us, instead. He doesn't love you, he enjoys abusing you and tormenting your mind. Stop allowing it. Enough is enough. Stop dialing this crazy man back. You deserve better.