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  • May 26, 2009, 06:49 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    True. I do have more tools in my tool case. A claw hammer, a sander, a nail gun. The crowbar was just the first choice, there are other options. ;)

    Oops, I just gave my plan away. Not good! :eek:

    And you've always seems like such a sweet and gentle young lady...
  • May 26, 2009, 06:53 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    And you've always seems like such a sweet and gentle young lady..................

    LMAO! You don't know me at all WG. That's so sweet. Gosh, blush, you, not so much. ;)

    I'm kind when I need to be, but kindness wasn't working here, so I was mean. So far so good, it seems to have worked. ::crossing fingers:: :D
  • May 26, 2009, 06:56 PM
    Wondergirl

    I hope he gives us an update. Next post will probably be a wedding announcement. Until the post after that...
  • May 26, 2009, 06:58 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I hope he gives us an update. Next post will probably be a wedding announcement. Until the post after that.............

    If it's a wedding announcement then I'm seriously going to rethink giving out advice. :eek:

    Sigh. It's time to wait and see. I hope it's worth the wait. ;)
  • May 26, 2009, 06:59 PM
    BlackVY

    My wedding is on the 17th of Oct... you coming?
  • May 26, 2009, 07:01 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by BlackVY View Post
    My wedding is on the 17th of Oct... ya'll coming?

    To the land down under? You know I can't resist that offer. :D

    Okay, we're hijacking the thread. I know, it's my specialty, but I'm going to pull the plug.

    Back to our corners we go. :)
  • May 26, 2009, 07:02 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by BlackVY View Post
    My wedding is on the 17th of Oct... ya'll coming?

    Congrats! That was my dream wedding date back when I was a teenager. A perfect autumn day!

    What will the wedding colors be?
  • May 26, 2009, 07:03 PM
    BlackVY
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    To the land down under? You know I can't resist that offer. :D

    Okay, we're hijacking the thread. I know, it's my specialty, but I'm gonna pull the plug.

    Back to our corners we go. :)

    Haha... true... sorry...

    Well back to the poster...

    So do you think this girl respects him? I think if he doesn't contact her for a while, she will get scared and maybe take the time to realise what she is doing wrong. She does need to sort herself out though... this is insane... and the messages she was sending him last night were really bad... really hope he gets through this...
  • May 26, 2009, 07:06 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by BlackVY View Post
    Haha... true... sorry...

    Well back to the poster...

    So do you think this girl respects him? I think if he doesn't contact her for a while, she will get scared and maybe take the time to realise what she is doing wrong. She does need to sort herself out though... this is insane... and the messages she was sending him last night were really bad... really hope he gets through this...

    It's going to take more than Steve and AMHD to help her sort out what's going on inside of her. And to her, it's all normal.
  • May 26, 2009, 07:08 PM
    BlackVY

    Well, he does keep coming back to her when she treats him bad, so she never sees that she is doing something wrong.

    Hopefully by leaving her alone for a while, she will realize some things...
  • May 26, 2009, 07:38 PM
    Ren6
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Altenweg View Post
    True. I do have more tools in my tool case. A claw hammer, a sander, a nail gun. The crowbar was just the first choice, there are other options. ;)

    Oops, I just gave my plan away. Not good! :eek:

    Got a seam ripper in there, Alty? :)
  • May 26, 2009, 07:41 PM
    Ren6
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by BlackVY View Post
    Haha... true... sorry...

    Well back to the poster...

    So do you think this girl respects him? I think if he doesn't contact her for a while, she will get scared and maybe take the time to realise what she is doing wrong. She does need to sort herself out though... this is insane... and the messages she was sending him last night were really bad... really hope he gets through this...


    Yah... I hope he gets through this, too. Truth is, he's probably madly texting her as we speak. He just wasn't hearing the advice. We've all been there, haven't we? Maybe everybody needs to learn on their own. I do wish the best for the young lad... from another Wisconsinite...
  • May 26, 2009, 08:13 PM
    BlackVY
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Ren6 View Post
    Yah...I hope he gets through this, too. Truth is, he's probably madly texting her as we speak. He just wasn't hearing the advice. We've all been there, haven't we? Maybe everybody needs to learn on their own. I do wish the best for the young lad...from another Wisconsinite...

    Yeah he is probably txting her, saying he is sorry and he doesn't want to let her go. Yeah we have all been there and done that.. eventually he has to learn for himself it doesn't work. I just hope he doesn't get too hurt while learning this lesson...
  • May 26, 2009, 10:07 PM
    Steve1010

    Huh she's talking to that guy now. And said she doesn't like him but can talk
  • May 26, 2009, 10:13 PM
    Steve1010

    She said she's talking to him to piss me off and get me to leave me alne..
  • May 26, 2009, 10:15 PM
    BlackVY

    So you are in contact with her again? How else would you know why she is talking to him?
  • May 26, 2009, 10:19 PM
    Steve1010

    He messaged her and told her.
  • May 26, 2009, 10:19 PM
    Steve1010
    I don't know why. She said to piss me off so id leave her alone
  • May 26, 2009, 10:21 PM
    Steve1010
    Now she says she doesn't wnt me. And doesn't want me around
  • May 26, 2009, 10:22 PM
    Steve1010
    She says its scary because I'm so controlling

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