Thanks amicon - without you especially I would have never got over this horrible person treating me so badly, so thank you so much. Its easy to type but please understand how much I do appreciate the time yo take to offer help and advice. Xxxxx

You're very welcome! :-) x

Thank you for being such a nice person, you for one have given me hope that there are still some nice people out there in this world xxx :)

I am so happy for you, Louise.You go girl! Stay strong ad vent to us.

Thanks sully 123 :D:D:D

Thanks sully123, don't worry it's the TWO WEEK MARK!! And I'm feeling gooooooood :D:D

Il never ever contact him again, I've learnt my lesson and no I have no desire to understand why he used to treat me like scum. He is an idiot and that's why he did it. I know him and he will wonder when I will coming running back asking him "why do you treat me this way"? Well he is going to have a big shock this time when he don't hear them words ;););)

Your last post is great! I wish you the best of luck!
Hang in there :)

Thanks carrotalker, I will lfor sure hang in there, I realised 2 weeks ago that there are a lot of people worse off than me. A lot of people on here I think need to realise this point that are having problems of there own xxx

Hi everyone - just wanted to give you all an update, I turned my phone on today and my ex has text me asking me if I rang him last night!! Do I reply and say no or should I just ignore the text and pretend I never saw it, I'm thinking of opting for the latter one

Any help would be appreciated, I just don't understand, he told me to leave him alone after I told him not to contact me yet he still has my mobile number in his phone. I don't have his number anymore but recognise his number.

You ignore it Louise.
Don't get drawn back into the gameplaying.
NC-remember?

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Originally Posted by amicon

You ignore it Louise.
Dont get drawn back into the gameplaying.
NC-remember?

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Hi Amicon - why do you think he text me that when he said 2 1/2 weeks ago that he wanted me to stop texting him which I did?? Its just so confusing, surely if he didn't want me in his life then he would have deleted my number??

Louise, don't care, please, why are you even giving him a thought? You are so strong, donb't give in now, you will be back to square one. You are so better off without him. OMG stay away, please!

He is trying to get you to play his stupid games again-dont worry about his twisted reasons.
Stop thinking about the sad sicko!

What you should do is ignore him and feel happy that he is out of your life.

Thanks sully and amicon - don't worry I deleted the text and I won't reply, I've come too far too go back, I know he don't care really - I'm just a little game to him to pass the time when he is bored and that hurts :(

Don't let it hurt you Louise. I admire you for being so strong, we are all here for you. Vent to us, that is all you need.

Don't let it hurt-he's not worthy of your pain.
Take care and enjoy your weekend. :-)

L try and not let it get me down but its so hard :(

He just walks back into my life whenever he pleases, he sent me a really nasty text saying to go away and stop texting him after I had told him not to contact me again. I hurt his feelings by telling him to never contact me again I know that for sure. Now after telling me too f%%k off and stop texting him he turns round and texts me?? I just don't understand what he has to gain by this? :(

He can only hurt you if you allow his actions to hurt.

Tell yourself that its pointless trying to figure him and his actions out.

Keep telling yourself that because that is the truth.

Thanks Amicon - I had all my head straight and was starting to move on and was doing so well with it all. Ive not contacted him for 17 days ish now and didn't really think of him much.

I feel that if I don't text him that he will just carry on texting me until he gets his way, I just wish I had never met him, I hate it that he plays me and his girlfriend off against each other :(

You don't text him.
You stay strong and don't break NC.