I went through the same thing!
I thought it was the end of the world without my ex in it.
Now, I'm so much better - I have found someone else, and he makes me incredibly happy. I don't regret anything that has happened now.
Love this post, I could relate to it a lot!

You are telling an exact situation here, but how does it work if I have to deal with him every day at work. I can understand that he stepped away for many reasons (logical reasons) but what I can't understand is having him around acting very normal as if nothing had happened between us, how would you deal with that? Can you tell me please?

All I can say is that is the truth! I went threw every bit of it and thank god that today 2 years later I am totally OK with him... we talk from time to time but even when he turns on that charm I feel nothing... I have dated since him and even had a live in BF but I think it was all part of the healing and getting over my ex... I care for him but I don't love him and don't care what or who he's doing now days...

Wow, that was amazing. Thank you!

Great post F4U! You cover every aspect, spot on! Thank you! Just reading it made me smile a couple of times.

Amazing and so helpful.

Thank you for posting this, it is helping me and I will read it everyday until I am healed.

Thank you so much, this is going to help me so much and I know it will help others get through the incredibly difficult times. The times I am suffering right now with no end in sight except for this post.

I was looking for something that will make me feel better and I'm glad I found this it has been two weeks since my break now every time I think of doing something stupid I would read this to bring me back to reality.

That was awesome! Iam hurting. Its been day two and I ran across this site yesturday.

I don't see how you're supposed to accept the fact that your ex is just happier now and could possibly, and in many cases its true, be dating someone the next week or two. And people are supposed to wait to find a new relationship with someone? I'm not the person to go out and freely have sex with people, but why wait?

Maybe I took the last part of the post wrong, but I'm in denial right now.. so maybe I have nothing to say about it until 6 months from now

That is the best description of break ups ever completely inspiring and full of truthful hope. Well done!

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Accept realty. Experience the pain. Learn the lesson.

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Bottom line, this is what we need to hear.

Completely right, I'm the breaker upper and for me to think about my ex, hoping he heals soon, I hope he finds this post. He's never been through it before and he is going to need something like this.

I had my heart broken recently. Well last week. You have the stages of things, and yes all of these things do happen. I tried to talk to her about it you know negotiate my way out of it.

Aah it was all in false hope.

I even helped her with a huge move she had going. Was hoping to win her back. Alas it was a fail.

So I ended it. She told me she had no feelings for me so I told her I will make the descsion for her. It is over. Now she may have decided it sometime before that but, I reached my this is done point.

Yes it does pain me, when it reaches that point. There is nothing I can do, I do not ever ever go back. The issue with going back is you remember all the reasons things sucked.

And yes technically she might have dumped me. I consider discussion or conversation about it a breach. Now I might reach out, this is true but, never go backwards.

At the end I deserve better, not from someone who knows not how they feel?

She told me she was faking feelings for me but, she tried and had no feelings for me at all. That was my end point.

-Tordo

Damn... I teared that soon I cried by reading your thread.
Great job lad. :)
Take a look at my thread. Currently I need guidance, tips and hints on my situation.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...me-370092.html

Thank you in advance of anything you can help me. Cheers mate.

Wow... I have been waiting for this speech for about a year and a half. You have no idea how much you just helped me. Thanks

This is what I needed,but I'm been there and done it.thanks

I wish everybody in the world who has ever been dumped could read this. This is really good.

Took me a while to read but by the end of it I cheered up slightly.. and it only happened today! Cheers buddy! :)

I can read this over and over without getting bored cause is such a good thread. I'm saying this again am I? Haha!

NC since 29th June

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I can read this over and over without getting bored cause is such a good thread. I'm saying this again am i? haha!

NC since 29th June

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Thank you , glad it's helping you out :cool:

Stick with the NC!!