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Originally Posted by vanheart

I think you already have received the closure.

An ex texting for cash. Yeah right.

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Well come to find out later that day, she was at work... but that was the reason she texted me instead of calling

NC buddy.

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Originally Posted by vanheart

NC buddy.

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Ok

Now you see the value of ignoring them. Using closure as an excuse for more apologies, and sucking up is in your words... pathetic.

Keep NC! And do better. Self pity is also... pathetic.

Maybe I'm just jealous someone else will come along and it'll be happyily ever after

Someone else for you.

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Originally Posted by vanheart

Someone else for you.

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For my ex

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Originally Posted by confused580

for my ex

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Same old song and dance.. I don't know what else to tell you... If want to wallow wallow.. If you want to be a carpet or a puppet go ahead. Not going to matter to her, she doesn't care. Do you even realize how you sound? It's the same thing over and over and over. We give you advice over and over and over. You were doing good and now you're starting to sound weak and needy again. There is no more advice I can give you... :rolleyes:

LOL, your jealous before its even happened? Now that is pathetic!

29 pages & still confused.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

Now you see the value of ignoring them. Using closure as an excuse for more apologies, and sucking up is in your words..................pathetic.

Keep NC! And do better. Self pity is also..............pathetic.

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I know talaniman, and I know all 29 pages of advice. Only reason I was saying that was because I called the person pathetic because they texted me and didn't call me to ask to borrow money. That was all.

Just stay NC.

That's all in the past.

Can't wait until confused580 becomes aware850.

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Originally Posted by vanheart

Just stay NC.

Thats all in the past.

Can't wait until confused580 becomes aware850.

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I know vanheart just don't want to be known as a verbal a

Stay cool man. Don't worry.

Those are just stupid thoughts in your head. No need to dwell on 'em.

You're doing great.

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Originally Posted by vanheart

Stay cool man. Dont worry.

Those are just stupid thoughts in your head. No need to dwell on 'em.

Youre doing great.

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OK thank you

Thank you all for these almost 30 pages. I am moving on just fine. Its getting easier. I guess I was in denial, because early on when I had mentioned she drunk texted that person, and that he was coming into town, I had No proof that he was coming to see her. He was only coming to town for a funeral.

So the second guessing was only because I had no proof of anything that was to go on. But its definitely getting easier

Good for you.

The more BS you remove, the clearer things get.

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He was only coming to town for a funeral.

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How do you know that, and how is that important?

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Originally Posted by talaniman

How do you know that, and how is that important?

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Because I never had proof that they were going to meet. I spent the night every day at my exes, and when she said that she wanted a day by herself, I put an assumption together. Only because she didn't bring up the text message... I finally brought it up when she told me she wanted to be by herself that night. Maybe it was my insecurities because of that text message sent 2 days prior

Like Tal said. How do you know that he was coming into town?

Whatever. No longer your biz.
Learn from this.

What not to do. (worry your mind.)