Oh my goodness!the same thing happened to me with the id thing only with me it was my licence the morning after I broke up with my ex.as u said pitiful.haha

Amazing!!

Very well said. I am currently going through some stuff in a long distance relationship and I can honestly say that after reading that gave me more of a boost on how to handle the situation. I loved it

Wow. This made me ball my eyes out. I went through pretty much all of this... its like you are writing about the last 2 months of my life. I feel so much better having read this... I know there is a light at the end of the tunnel, but it just seems that it got a lot brigher.

At the same time it scares me. We broke up because of circumstances... part of a LDR. But I know now there was more to it than that, ultimately we broke up because she lost attraction to me. I stopped being the guy who I was when we met...

So I have definitely learnt lessons from this, this break up is part of my life story. I needed to go through it, even though it has been the darkest period of my life.

I still think we might be in that lucky 3% who get back together, but I'm not holding my breath and just focusing on getting myself back. But I can see now how if we do get back together it could well be tarnished by what I now know.

It hasn't taken her long to find a new "friend" who she is already screwing most nights. She has slotted him in as my replacement. But I take solace from the fact she is only doing it to numb her pain from our breakup. She is one of those girls who cannot handle being on her own.

It breaks my heart that she is with someone else already. But that is her way of dealing with it. I have to let her be.

Her being with this new guy might make her feel better right now, but at least I am going through a proper healing process and will ultimately come out of this better off than her.

I love You... Oh god it was awsome...

Holy crap! That was AWESOME!! I have been looking for advice like this and it really opened my eyes to what's going in my situation and how far I've gotten :D

This is just what I needded! I'm one of those newies you mentioned! Great comment!

Thank you!

OMG! I am speechless, but that was a brilliant post. Just reading that add inspiration and I just want to continue reading and reading. It actually gives me hope knowing that things will get better and I won't be in this situation forever (which I think I would be) Just like u start the post I been experience fr the very start the pain, suffering, annoying and very think in between. And I keep thinking about the good times and what to know what this is happening to me and what do I have to do through this and yes as u said I call every day over and over... omg it amazing how u can related to and even write and I feel like u just interept what I am feeling and just write my feeling and taught into words. I just need to accept reality but I am scared.

All I can say is, I'm sitting here looking at the blank white respond box, and I just looked up a chuckled to myself, and said, "yeah... everything will be alright."

This enlightened me a bit. Thanks for sharing, most of the things are exactly what I did. I think I have to accept the 3% getting back thing. Sadly, but true. I love this forum, and I will sit more onto it.

There is nothing more heart warming than when something touches the soul. Everyone looks for something they can relate to, to some how find there connection with the universe. I realized how much I have grown, because I read the whole thing with a knowing smile,
(lol, I had to pause for a moment, because it started to get deep). As said before, this should be a must read for everyone who is going through the struggle. Thank you for sharing with us.

Excellent post I have questions, but respect this post too much to clog it up with my story. Very, very, very good advice.

What a wonderful post, I'm glad I stumbled upon it. It's not as though I've never been through a break up before so it made me smile to realize no matter the couple the circumstances or anything else, it appears to always be the same mechanics. I can read this and realize it's all stuff I've been through before and had just hoped I wouldn't be going through again. This should be a required read!

U don't expect after you dumped or before you dumped
Just you dumped that he or she watever beafore

That was awesome it gave me a lot of ideas on what to do in the situation Im in. I always say there is a reason they are you X

Your right on the money. I can't believe how true all of what you said was. I guess it's good to be able to hear or read it once in awhile from a total stranger. Makes things easier I guess. Thanks

Wonderful post... I am the new person in my husband life but your right... what you saying is true in every way. I like when you are saying, Remember the person you were when you first met your ex and get that person back. And the universe will take care of the rest." My husband told me after 5 years when he dropped of the kids and came home that something funny happened, he was looking at her and she was talking to him and in his had just was a big question mark ,, Do I know this person'' and ,,he felt nothing against her" That was the point when in my hart I felt he is over her and since this happened he is himself. So everyone whom read this friend4u178
Ultra Member has right time, time, time..

Wow! I liked reading it. It made me think... I think I was once a little bit like those "exes"... the funny thing is that, it made me realized how bad I was as a lover. Not anymore...

Well I am still in denial and hearing this was like a bullet in the chest to hear that I have lost him or there is no way he will come back at this stage I say yes its all brilliant but I am a newbie and I am very freshly broken up with someone I lived with for six years and with a son and I am weak and going through the typical stages but I still seek hope , hope that maybe there is something I can do to fix us make him like me again... to figure he is just going to be gone and that's it at this stage is devastating

Sorry its great advice but

Shelley