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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

Guys, I broke up with Cody...

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I think you made the right decision. :) Just stay strong and know that we are all here to support you. I know it was tough, but you'er strong. You will get through this. :)

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Originally Posted by ohsohappy

I think you made the right decision. :) Just stay stron and know that we are all here to support you. I know it was tough, but you'er strong. you will get through this. :)

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Good girl. EMOP.. I was telling my daughter about you this afternoon(hope you don't mind) she said there were a couple of girls she had counseled as in her dormitory. She said , Look inside your heart at the good things you've done and build your future from this moment on. She said never let anyone take away the faith you have in yourself. You have strength you don't even know you have until you need it.



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She's a good kid and I always cry when we leave although she's only sixty miles away
Lots of people cofide in her and she gives them good advicce. She's an understanding young lady and she has always been very sensitive to other peoples problems. I hope you are doing all right little girl. HUGS from me and Hugs from Bethie!

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Good girl... I was telling my daughter about you this afternoon(hope you don't mind) she said there were a couple of girls she had counseled as in her dormitory. She said , Look inside your heart at the good things you've done and build your future from this moment on. tive She's a good kid and I always cry when we leave although she's only sixty miles away.

Lots of people cofide in her and she gives them good advicce. She's an understanding young lady and she has always been very sensitive to other peoples problems. I hope you are doing alright little girl. HUGS from me and Hugs from Bethie!

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Was this for EMOP or me?

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Originally Posted by ohsohappy

Was this for EMOP or me?

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Gosh no, you have it all together and you give great advice.
Sorry ohso it was for emop. God I'm going to get rid of these fake nails and get some new glasses. I also did a little editing a minute ago.

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Sorry ohso it was for emop. God I'm going to get rid of these fake nails and get some new glasses.

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I pretty much understood, Just clarifying. :)

GUYS... I feel like a total slattern

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

GUYS.... I feel like a total slattern

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I don't know what that is but if you want to explain I'd love to hear.

From dictionary.com

Slat·tern   /ˈslætərn/ Show Spelled[slat-ern] Show IPA
–noun
1.a slovenly, untidy woman or girl.
2.a slut; harlot.

I feel like a tramp

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from dictionary.com

slat·tern   /ˈslætərn/ Show Spelled[slat-ern] Show IPA
–noun
1.a slovenly, untidy woman or girl.
2.a slut; harlot.

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I'm sorry to be such a pain. I promise I'll try to start figuring some of thes things out for myself. Thanks again ohso. I appreciate it.

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I feel like a tramp

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Stop it! And I'm not giving up on you and you'd better not give up on yourself.DO NOT put yourself down. I have prayed for you throughout the day "God Don't Make Any Junk". You are worth something. We all make mistakes but when we realize they are mistakes we try not to do them again. You stop it now. Hugs

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I'm sorry to be such a pain. I promise I'll try to start figuring some of thes things out for myself. Thanks again ohso. I appreciate it.

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You're not a pain, I like helping. :)

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

I feel like a tramp

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Emop, I know you are going through a bad time right now but you have to remember that this isn't a chat site.

If you have a problem you need to clearly explain what it is.

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Originally Posted by shazamataz

If you have a problem you need to clearly explain what it is.

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She has. Please read from the beginning, and you will see the problem.

We love you EMOP and we are here for you. Take it one day at a time.

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Originally Posted by shazamataz

Emop, I know you are going through a bad time right now but you have to remember that this isn't a chat site.

If you have a problem you need to clearly explain what it is.

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She's been having a rough time in the last couple of days. Rougher than usual. Blessings

Sorry, meant to explain and got kicked off fast! Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! I guess I deleted the explanation in my rush, I'm sorry guys, please forgive me

Here's my problem: AS FRIENDS I went to the movies with my friend. A guy friend, but still just a friend. We were watching the movie, behaving pretty well, and I said I was cold, so he put his arm around me. About half an hour later, he kissed me. It progressed to touching and heavy kissing, "making out" I guess. It was unexpected, I really didn't intend on this happening, but now I feel like a loose girl for this. I especially feel like this because he isn't sure if it meant anything to him, as he told me after I got home last night.

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Sorry, meant to explain and got kicked off fast! Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! I guess I deleted the explanation in my rush, I'm sorry guys, please forgive me

Here's my problem: AS FRIENDS I went to the movies with my friend. A guy friend, but still just a friend. We were watching the movie, behaving pretty well, and I said I was cold, so he put his arm around me. About half an hour later, he kissed me. It progressed to touching and heavy kissing, "making out" I guess. It was unexpected, I really didn't intend on this happening, but now I feel like a loose girl for this. I especially feel like this because he isn't sure if it meant anything to him, as he told me after I got home last night.

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I think you kind of went for it because you wanted to feel like someone (a guy) cared for you the way you want to care for another guy. Most of us have had impulsive moments like that. Just look back on it and learn from it the best way you know how.

And here's a bit of advice for you: If it was the right thing to do, you'd feel good about it. So let that be how you judge your behaviors and decide to learn from them.

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Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx

Sorry, meant to explain and got kicked off fast! Sorry! Sorry! Sorry! I guess I deleted the explanation in my rush, I'm sorry guys, please forgive me

Here's my problem: AS FRIENDS I went to the movies with my friend. A guy friend, but still just a friend. We were watching the movie, behaving pretty well, and I said I was cold, so he put his arm around me. About half an hour later, he kissed me. It progressed to touching and heavy kissing, "making out" I guess. It was unexpected, I really didn't intend on this happening, but now I feel like a loose girl for this. I especially feel like this because he isn't sure if it meant anything to him, as he told me after I got home last night.

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EMOP, why not try finding the person you are and I think it will be a good person you find. You don't need a guy to make you fulfilled. So spend some time finding you. There's a big world out there and as I said before.. You can be a help to someone. Someday when you least expect BAM you meet the man you want to spend your life with and he will feel the same if it's meant to be. You Take Care.

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Originally Posted by ohsohappy

I think you kind of went for it because you wanted to feel like someone (a guy) cared for you the way you want to care for another guy. Most of us have had impulsive moments like that. Just look back on it and learn from it hte best way you know how.

And here's a bit of advice for you: If it was the right thing to do, you'd feel good about it. So let that be how you judge your behaviors and decide to learn from them.

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I felt great about it until he said he needed time to think.


My mum has been telling me to date around, immediately. I had a date tonight with my other friend, but dad didn't let me go. I want to go out and have fun, take my mind off the break up. However, I feel I may be moving too fast.


I think the strong feelings I had for Cody were more fear of being alone than a desire to be with him.