The only way to get an ex back, is to concentrate on yourself.

Go out on dates, have fun, take up new hobbies. Do all the things that she said you would never do.

Do not wallow in self pity, or beg her to come back, or constantly think about her. Nobody can tell you what the future holds. But I can tell you one thing - concentrating on yourself, and improving your own life is essential. If this doesn't bring her back, then it doesn't matter. You have probably attracted someone else by improving your own life. Make sense?

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Originally Posted by cld1979

The only way to get an ex back, is to concentrate on yourself.

Go out on dates, have fun, take up new hobbies. Do all the things that she said you would never do.

Do not wallow in self pity, or beg her to come back, or constantly think about her. Nobody can tell you what the future holds. But I can tell you one thing - concentrating on yourself, and improving your own life is essential. If this doesn't bring her back, then it doesn't matter. You have probably attracted someone else by improving your own life. Make sense?

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Why is it so easy for guys to go and date other or talk to other females when were broken up but then if the female does it the male finds out about it were wrong...

I broke contact again today, but this time I feel pretty good. I asked if she was OK because when she road her bike past my house she looked at me with sad face. Plus why is she riding past my house in the first place. She wrote back and said, she was in a committed relationship and not to e-mail her any more. And said thanks if I was happy she had some one. Personally I think she is lying from what she has done with drive buys and the bike ride past my house. If I was dating someone I would not go past ex's house. But this time is different, I'm not up set and lately I have been thinking of her less and less. I think I'm finely getting over her. Because when she said she was now in a committed relationship something hit me, IF she is dating someone she has moved on, and that showed me Im wasting time and life on one woman. What the HELL was I doing, I think its time for me to start dating and find someone better for me. Because in the e-mail I did send I was nice to her. So in time when this dude figures out how she is I will be happy without her. Then mybe she will e-mail me. But I won't care then about her. I am finely starting to see her for what she is? I will be giving my opionion her on this site, So this will be my last post about my Ex Fiance but it is now time to move forward and not ever talk or bring my ex up ever again. For her what comes around goes around? My mom thinks my ex thinks I'm still not over her and she can put me on hold a little longer now that I have contacted her. She know I'm not dating either so let me think she dating to keep my mine on her. No, not know more I'm done with her and her games. So thank you to all those who have gotten me this far, now it's up to me to let go for good and when she drive by again, I won't be home and if I am I WILL ignore her like I have been.

P.S. If it is true, I feel sooooo sorry for this new guy. Because she's going to do the same thing to him.

It doesn't bother me no more she drives or rides past my house any more. Quite frankly I don't care any more. I have moved on and don't want her back. I say I am 95% over her. But when she drives buy and I am outside should I wave to her with a smile, like I don't care, because I don't. I would never take her back after doing what she's doing now.

Don't start anything you can't finish, as she may take your friendly gesture as a sign to start talking again, but NO CONTACT does not mean anti-social. You must decide if you can handle the consequences of your own actions. A very good time to be honest with yourself.

Why would you want to wave back after all she put you through. It doesn't matter what she thinks of you. Stay strong! We're in this together!

T-Man... Why would it be bad for her to start talking to him? Isn't that what he wants?

I guess if I do see her I will smile without waving unless she waves which I doubt because when she started waving 4 weeks ago I did not wave back. Plus after the e-mail I wrote a couple days ago I thinks she thinks I want her back and I don't. I just don't want her to think I'm weak and have not moved on. Which I have.

You have not moved on yet... You are almost there though.

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Originally Posted by emopunk7

Why would you want to wave back after all she put you through. It doesn't matter what she thinks of you. Stay strong! We're in this together!

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I believe she still thinks I want her back, and I DO NOT want to give her ant ego boost.

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Originally Posted by emopunk7

You have not moved on yet...You are almost there though.

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Yes I have moved on and do not want her back.

I'm sorry SAB123... I really am... I have no idea why I said that. I guess I'm just down and I'm thinking you are me.If you say you have then what do I know. I'm still confused... I am pretty sure I don't want her but I miss things the way they were, so I'm half over it... I don't know why it hit me today for? I think it's because I'm not getting attention from many pretty girls. I'm wishing you the best my friend! Thank you for posting on my page... I had to vent... I was going nuts... lol I love this site! So what are your plans for today?

I Have moved on and don't want her back. I will never speak to her again, she made sure sure I new she had a boyfriend then contiues to drive and ride past my house. It's I would never do that to her even when she broke up with me. It's like she rubbing it in my face and she thinks she making me jealous, she is not. Personally I think she is starting to get signs of mental illness like her mom. Every time I see her she looks at me with a sad face. What she sooo sad about she says she has a boyfriend. AHHH! She such a user and game player. I am sooooo happy without her now.

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I'm sorry SAB123...I really am...I have no idea why I said that. I guess I'm just down and I'm thinking you are me.If you say you have then what do I know. I'm still confused...I am pretty sure I don't want her but I miss things the way they were, so I'm half over it...I don't know why it hit me today for? I think it's because I'm not getting attention from many pretty girls. I'm wishing you the best my friend! Thank you for posting on my page...I had to vent...I was going nuts...lol I love this site! So what are your plans for today?

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You will soon have pretty girls after you! They can see rite through you. They sense you are sad and women want a happy man. I see what you are going through and I was once their and people helped me here. I will return the favor for a very long time on this site. I still hurt a little not from her but what she is doing to me now. That is sooo wrong. But tonight going out to beer garden listen to band and do some sniffing!! :)

Sniffing? You do coke?

Lol... just kidding!

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Sniffing? You do coke?

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You made me laugh Emo, It's been a long time since I been able to do this a lot.

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You made me laugh Emo, It's been a long time since I been able to do this alot.

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The coke or the laughing?

Lol... just kidding again!

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lol...just kidding again!

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Good one!