OMG I'm so jumping onto this post... here goes nothing!

Dear X

When I fell in love with you, I had never fallen that hard. I would have walked to china and back for you. I listened to your stupid rants about abstract ideas, I listened to you tell me the same things over and over. I watched stupid eastern european independent movies.

You never accepted me, you made me feel a little worthless, you hated my friends, you hated my studies, you hated my taste in movies and TV shows. You couldn't stand my family...

I honestly thought that the day we were over that I would miss you terribly, that I would never fall in love again, that I would never trust another man again.

But dearest x, guess what...

I don't lie a wake at night wishing you were here. I live my life and I'm happier alone than I ever were with you. I still have my friends, I still have my hobbies, I still have my family and what do you got? Half a sanity and no me.

and I know you want me back, but your chance came and went. You had me, you pushed me away. And I'm not shedding one single tear for you!

So thank you for the reality check. HAHA and my freedom!

Goodbye, and goodnight!

all the best to me!
Roxy to the pox, 2bedelicious!:cool:

Dear ex

I wonder every day why you cheated on mr you thought you destroyed me but I'm stronger now than ever. You blamed me why you cheated I guess because I bought your plane ticket I put you in that situation? Please I hope your guilt is killing you. I did everything fir you and never complained once, and you literally threw me away like I'm a coffee cup. All I did was love you but your selfishness greediness wanted more huh. I know your dating your rebound I wibdrr how much longer before you cheat on him, you have problems.

See you

Dear Ex,

I don't know why you keep reaching out to me like this, but I no longer care.

Your flattery is very nice on the ears, but they are all meaningless, and probably all lies. I hate lies.

I tried to be understanding, forgiving, and nice, but my efforts were clearly unappreciated.

I thank you for continually being a jerk, continually hurting me, and continually making me feel like trash.

Today I can finally say goodbye to you, to us, and to our past. So thank you, for helping me move on.

You made me stronger, and for that I'll be forever grateful.

Dearest Sophia,

It's been months now since that day in July when you packed your things and left. I should have seen it coming. You gave me many chances, but I neglected you and let my pride ruin our relationship.

I'm so sorry for letting you down. I'm so sorry that I wasn't there when you needed me, I'm so very sorry that I didn't try and work out our problems when I had the chance. I ignored you until you left me.

We should be living together now, and maybe even engaged. I am so sorry for ruining something that could have been so great. Im sorry I played a hand in ruining your relationship with your step sister, your step mom and your dad here in town. They had their own problems but we could have solved them in a different way. I feel like a home wrecker.

I miss you almost daily, and feel this was the biggest mistake of my life. My pride has consumed me now, and I have to lay in this bed that I've made for myself. Forgive me.

The times that I remember right now makes me want to... if I EVER see you I'd FRIGGIN' run and jump on you like a crazy baracuda and pull your eyes OUT! Then beat the empty brains out of your skull.

I won't need to do that because you're already doing it to yourself with street drugs :p

Dear Ann;

You were really cute. You came onto me first. Strong. Said you pointed me out to all your friends. I was hesitant because, well, let's just say you didn't exactly make a great first impression of "girlfriend material". You had many guys around, even when we met, and yet you wanted me. I thought this was strange, and I didn't really want a relationship. You pushed. It worked. For awhile.

Summer came. You went to your upper-crust summer home by the lake. I went to the run down shack that we're selling to get out of the midwest. We visited each other. Twice. On my visit, I saw how much of a spoiled little princess you were. Your father bought you everything, while I had to work a week just to pay for the plane ticket to see you. That money would have been better used here in college, on books and beer. But I loved you, so I didn't mind. You treated your family like , you always expected something for nothing. My mother would've slapped you. My father would have sold you into slavery.

I hate how you made me do things. I hate holding your purse while I had to follow you around shopping. I hate how I was "expected" to drive you everywhere, even when I had something to do. I hate how the relationship was one-sided. I hate how you hated my friends. My friends are awesome! Yeah, they might be crude, but they are loyal to a fault, every one of them. And honest. They weren't thrilled with you. They call 'em like they see 'em. I chose to disbelieve 'em. I hate how you were concerned about trivial things like $500 jackets and shoes that cost more than my entire wardrobe. I don't respect the fact that you will never have to work hard for anything in your life, while I was always told since I was a kid that "we don't have enough money for that".

Congratulations. You won't have to do anything with your life. I feel sorry for the guy who ends up with you. In the beginning, he will think he has a prize. A beautiful, sophisticated woman with refined tastes. I hope he can be both successful and at your beck and call 24 hours a day. He will have to be two places at once.

However, if your closest "friends" ever found out how much crap you spewed about them behind their back, I doubt they would be friends with you. I can only imagine the things you are saying about me right now to them. I don't really care, I'm moving on.

I hope you made the right decision. Actually, I think you did make the right decision. I've been no contact for a month now, and I'm only getting stronger. I think you lack all of the qualities of a friend that I look for. I guess that means I don't want you in my life. At all.

But the sex was good. Hope you're happy. Don't fail any classes... like you did this summer... and the winter before that. You'll graduate by 2020, don't worry. Daddy's bankrolling.

~Yo

p.s. Forget about your "Notebook" fantasies. I found out how you told your friends that it was "just like in the Notebook to date a 'poor boy'". And I know you used lines from the movie when we were together. I chose to ignore them. But if you think I'm going to wait around 6 years for you, you got another thing coming. I hate that movie.

Dear K,
Where do I start? I can remember the past five years of my life so vividly because you truly brightened up every single day that I talked to you. The first time I ever saw you I felt like melting and I knew that there was just no possible way I could live with myself without trying to get to know you. You are the closest thing to a fairytale I have ever seen, and I would love to sit here and type angry words and get mad at you for falling out of love with me, but there is not a bone in my body that can do that…at the end of the day you are still the most beautiful person I have ever met.

I guess if I had one wish it would be that my memories weren't quite as clear as they are. I cannot put into words how much you mean to me and I truly wish that someone can make you happy. There isn't a day that goes by that my thoughts in some way don't revolve around you. I have thrown every picture away and put away ever letter we wrote each other, and it doesn't do any good. My mind is a photo album of our life together, and I have to tell you that I wouldn't have it any other way.

I honestly don't regret anything that happened, and I thank God every day of my life that I was lucky enough to be with you. I can still feel you in my arms and I can still remember how you smelled when I hugged you. I can see you on the other side of my bed when I wake up and I can hear your voice saying, “Hi babe,” whenever I would pick up your phone calls. I can remember the touch of your hand in mine when we would walk to dinner on the Plaza, and I can remember the first time we ever knew we were in love. You taught me what goodness was and you showed me what it was like to love. I am so proud of you and I truly hope that one day you will think of me as fondly as I think of you.

All good things come to an end. I am still here for you and I still miss the hek out of you. I would do anything for you and I think you know that. I wish it could have worked out between us, but it didn't, and that is life. My last words to you, from the song that defined us: Edwin McCain's “I'll Be”

“And I'll be, your cryin' shoulder
I be love's suicide
I'll be better when I'm older
I'll be, the greatest fan in your life”

I love you kid, always have and I always will. You are an angel. See you around babe!

Sincerely,
Chris

Dear Rejected,

You were always my closest friend but I never meant for you to fall for me the way you did. I know we said we would always be friends, but its too hard to speak to you knowing how deep your emotions were and how vulnerable you were when you approached me.

You will never know how much your courage meant to me... I can only hope that by staying true to myself and being honest with you that I gave you a chance to find true happiness and true love with someone else.

Always,
busymind

dear x,

I've been broken hearted for three weeks now, 4 years is a long time. Still, getting better every day. I'm setting you free. Hope you find what your looking for.

Dear x,

I miss you like crazy! I love you and always will. You were amazing and I wish I realized things that I do now when we were together. You treated me really good, up until the end anyway, when you started to not care anymore. And that is my own fault because I pushed you to that point.

You are the hottest thing in the world. Every time I looked at you all I could see is how gorgeous you are and how lucky I was to be with you. You completely threw me off when you asked for my number. I saw you around and always thought, wow, he is a cutie, and so polite! Then you asked me out and I thought, sure why not! Never thought I would have fallen for you. You are so much younger and never seemed like my type. You are into heavy metal and have a ton of friends and so outgoing. And lol, you hate my favourite band!

You really loved me a lot, I know you did. You told everyone, you told my sister you wanted to marry me the first time you met her and you told your mom that I was "the one." When we were out with your friends, you would run to the store and come back with a rose and give it to me in front of everybody.

I don't know why I turned insecure and untrusting towards you. Probably because of your hotness and now I know it's because my ex that f****d me over and I stupidly thought you would do the same thing to me. No matter how many times you tried to reassure me and tell me you are not my ex so stop thinking that way. But I still did and had to start a fight with you and accuse you of things if you wanted your time and to go out. Even though you always came home to me.

I broke up with you before and you took me back. You said that would be the last time. If I broke up with you again, then it was over. And you stuck to it that time. That was the biggest mistake of my life. When I tried to talk to you, you said you needed a few days to think and we would talk later. That wasn't good enough for me and I pushed and pushed you and didn't give you the space you needed and I blew it for good. (wow, I wish I knew about this site before I did this! ) I acted so immaturely and I put you down in every possible way and said the meanest s**t to you that you didn't deserve. You think I am the meanest person in the world and I killed whatever feelings you had left for me.

I will never forget you, I will never stop loving you. It's been two months and rest assured, I'm getting everything I deserve. It is not getting better for me. I regret what I said to you and how much I pushed you over the edge. If I could have stayed calm and realized how good I had it with you, how faithful and sweet you are, I would have been the happiest person for the rest of my life. I doubt I will ever meet anyone like you again or anyone that I love as much as you. But if I do, I will never make the same mistakes again that I made with you.

I'm starting to accept it's over and I will probably never see you again. I promise I will let you live your life now without ever hearing from me again. It's going to be so hard. But I really hope one day I run into you again and maybe... just maybe give it another shot down the road. I know right now you want nothing to do with me. I hope you change your mind one day. I'm going to concentrate on myself now. I'm going to hit the gym everyday and get back into shape! I will always be here for you.

Dear ex,

I think I'm finally ready to move on.

Wish you the best of luck in the future

The 2009 Me

Dear Ex,

My oh my, do I love you. Every night I dream about you and I wake up searching around my darken room to see if you're there. Thanks to you, I no longer get a good nights sleep. It's been five days without speaking to you so far and it's been the longest five days of my life. I hear your happy with your new guy. That's good to hear. It's too bad he'll never love you as much as I did. I'm really longing for the day when you no longer cross my mind. I wish you the best of luck

Good riddance.

After a breakup words are useless.take a big breath and that's it! Look for a new moon in your night

Until the sunrise. Then you're back on the wave

To my ex,

As I grow older and wiser, I realize I was not always the man I should have been in our marriage. I was quick to blame you for everything without always taking responsibility for my own actions. It takes two to tango. We both said and did things that were out of character for one another and I want you to know that I forgive you for the mistakes you made and I hope you forgive me for the mistakes I made. I will always love you and I think about you daily.

Great idea this!

I wrote a song for my ex.. the lyrics pretty much works as a letter..


I just want to say thank you
For all the apologies you never made
You kicked me hard when I was down
And took no share of the blame

And it must be hard to keep this act up all the time
And I remember your face when you forgot your lines

And I know you'll think this was all about you
But like your cheap valentine, your words don't ring true



So I just want to say thank you
For all the things you left unsaid
The tales you've spun have all come undone
I've unravelled them all in my head

And it must be hard to be so charming all the time
Especially when I've seen what you're trying to hide

And I know you'll think this was all about you
But like your cheap valentine, your words don't ring true



And I just want to say thank you
For all the promises you could never keep
You caught me off my guard with your disregard
For all the tears you made me weep

And it must be hard to be such a martyr all the time
Especially when your life is based on a lie

And I know you'll think this was all about you
But like your cheap valentine, your words don't ring true

And I know you'll think this was all about you
But my cheap valentine your words don't ring true.

Dear ex,

You may wonder why I am writing to you now. There are things that I deserve to say to you regardless of whether you will hear them or not.

You treated me very badly indeed and when you walked away you showed no concern, remorse or guilt for the way that you behaved.

I think you're probably the most immature, selfish, cowardly and irresponsible person I have ever had the misfortune to meet.

You lied to me, you showed no respect for me and worst of all you kicked me hard when I was down.

I say these things to you now with no desire for reconcilliation, as I can think of nothing I would like less.

I am simply exercising the right to express myself which you denied me when we broke up.

You have showed yourself in a very bad light indeed and I now understand fully why you don't like yourself very much.

You are cold and callous and you played games with someone who showed you nothing other than love and respect.

The only mistakes I made during our relationship were to treat you like an adult and place my trust in you.

You are, to put it simply, a horrible person.

I wish you luck with the denial and fabrication that is your life.

Ironically, if I were to send this letter, I would be giving you the gift of justification.
You are unworthy of my attention and I have no desire to give you anything more, so it will remain unsent.

End of.

Damn! I feel better for that! :)

Oh lord my letter is long!!
------------------------------------------------------------------------
Know I sound like a broken record going over the same bull over and over and I am completely aware of it , but I have all good intentions that this will be the last time we both have to hear or talk about this.
For the last few and by few I mean 8 months I have dedicated my time and biggest efforts on getting the old you and me back , trying to get our old hopes and dreams WE had back knowing deep inside that will never happened , We have become to far of strangers to each other to even have anything close to what “us” used to be, I never would've thought things would come to end like this.
From the moment I met you call me crazy but I knew I was going to love you , It felt amazing how everything was happening without any planning and even when you were so far away I loved you like ihave never love anyone , I felt so comfortable with you I felt like you were mean to be in my life all along and that you were the missing piece that I had been missing and for once I stop feeling empty , it felt like you came in my life unexpectedly but somehow you just belong there and it felt like you loved me like no one ever had love me you were my best friend not just my girlfriend , at least that's what it felt. I am very much aware that what I did to you by lying about my ex was wrong and I am no longer going to try to explain and make you understand why I did it because regardless it was wrong and I regret hurting you as much as I did , Its unknown if you will ever forgive me , I hope someday you , One thing I ask is for you to never doubt of my feelins for you no matter what my childish mistake I did please know that I love you so much and I care about you more than anyone else in my life because you felt true.
But I'm not here to tell you how much I love you or how much I care about you or how bad I want you back , I'm here to say goodbye and goodluck because that seems to be the only two words that are left to be said between us only this time I mean it . Truth is you wrecked me when you fell for her so deeply , you destroyed me when you said” she was the best thing that ever happened to you” , you killed me when you saw every single one of her “ qualities”, when for the longest time you saw my wrong doing my flaws my mistakes . Sometimes I think we grew to far apart from each other and at the end there wasn't any love.. not at least from you maybe you were just used to me or the idea of me being around but unlike you it wasn't the idea of you that kept me hanging on it was the LOVE I felt for you .
I would have never ever dreamed of us ending this way , honestly I never thought we would end because I in my dumb mind felt there wasn't anything or anyone that could come between us , but you proved me wrong by doing a complete change and becoming someone I don't know , you have turned me into a stranger in your life , you have made me feel like I don't belong anywhere near you , you have made me feel nothing more than just a worthless human being who doesn't deserve more than your left overs ,and today I say stop not only to you but to myself because I have let myself go through all of this I'm tired of crying I've cried for way to long expecting you will care , it will never happened it will never be the same you have damage me so much by being the new you , took you days or maybe weeks to kick me out of your life, to stop looking back , you made it seem so easy to move on and even now I was such a fool to believe that maybe just maybe I could or would get my best friend back but once again you have prove me wrong so after many disappointments between each other I'm here to say goodbye.
I have so many questions , I needed so many answers , I needed an explanation but I'm well aware that will not happened , I'm angry and hurt , I feel played and betrayed by the one and only person I trusted with everything and anything I feel angry because you gave up , because you don't care , because you became someone else and I hurt because I love you , I miss you and its time to say goodbye,goodluck , time to move on and let you be , let me be .
I know you have the wrong perception of me , you strongly believe I lied to you for 2 yrs straight and that I didn't care for you , and there is no point on my making you think different because you will not believe me just know that I didn't as hard as that is to believe I truly did love you , I never used you , I never expected a wedding , an expensive ring or you coming out to your family –all I wanted was you to love me that was all. And recently you have continue to make me feel like I have no part in your life , as soon as you met someone else to keep you busy you are off to that person and the one person who has been here regardless , ME. I have tried to explain to you that its not that I need you to talk to me 24/7 but I guess I was in the wrong to think we could be bestfriends again.
There is really not a lot to say left Thanks for showing me how much 2 n half years is really worth once someone else comes along , if true thank you for loving me and letting me love you , I'm sorry I wasn't what you expected , I'm sorry I hurt you , I'm sorry I was never good enough for you , I'm sorry for annoying you , I'm sorry for wanting us back. I wished I would've known you were this kind of person and I would've save me from a heartache , believe it or not I thank you for 2 wonderful years even after the fights and the screaming there is good things that happened and those are memories that I will forever keep I'm sorry for going in this relationship with unsolved personal issues that in some ways got in our way , I wished I would've made you happy because you deserve it and I know I could've made you the happiest , it was obvious I was never what you were looking for so good luck to you I hope you find what and who you are looking for , goodbye to false hope and goodbye to you.