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Originally Posted by Steve1010

god its still bothering me when she said thought u were different. clearly not

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And I'm lmao... it's sooooooooooo lame!!

So what do I expect tomorrow? Like what do u think she will say?

No.. I just don't want to lose her by not talking to her

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so what do i expect tommorrow? like what do u think she will say?

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Are you in the Central Time Zone?

do u think she is saying IM DONE, to get me to answer? Lol she said she was done like 3 hours ago?> then randomly texted me saying " hey boy" like >?

Yes I am, I have to get up at 630

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do u think she is saying IM DONE, to get me to answer?? lol she said she was done like 3 hours ago?> then randomly texted me saying " hey boy" like >?

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Like my grandfather would say, she is full of applesauce.

So no matter how long it takes for me to answer do u think she truly needs me and wants to be w me? And its driving her crazy I'm not answering

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so no matter how long it takes for me to answer do u think she truly needs me and wants to be w me? and its driving her crazy im not answering

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Yes to all questions. And if you screw this up, you will lose her.

How can I screw up?

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so no matter how long it takes for me to answer do u think she truly needs me and wants to be w me? and its driving her crazy im not answering

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Its driving you crazy not answering, and its driving her crazy now getting a reply. Lol!

If she really loves you and needs you, you will know from what you are doing now.

She needs to sort herself out...

After 9 tomorrow night, whatever she says, listen (or read) and don't answer right away. Think about it. Is she being respectful to you or not. Is she being loving or not. Answer nicely if she is, and, if she isn't, tell her you won't reply until she is respectful and loving.

But what does it matter answering at noon compared to 9 at night?

Then give very simple and short answers.

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but what does it matter answering at noon compared to 9 at night?

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Time... she needs time... and so do you...

If I answer short answers. She will be like WHY Didn't U ANSWER LAST NIGHT WHY! OMG WHY UR SUCH A JERK

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if i answer short answers. she will be like WHY DIDNT U ANSWER LAST NIGHT WHY! OMG WHY UR SUCH A JERK

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Then say Goodbye and stop communication.

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Then say Goodbye and stop communication.

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Exactly... if she doesn't respect you and treat you well, then you don't to her... she has to learn...

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Exactly... if she doesn't respect you and treat you well, then you don't to her... she has to learn...

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No extra words, no apologies, no explanations, no blubbering -- just Goodbye.

OK guys, I have to go to bed now.. thank you all SO much for your help. I will do what you said and be back tomorrow so check the thread.. thanks so much I really mean that thank u