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  • Jun 22, 2007, 09:24 AM
    emopunk7
    Yea... You'll be fine... Try not thinking about it so much... Do u have a car?
  • Jun 22, 2007, 09:31 AM
    SAB123
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by emopunk7
    Yea...You'll be fine...Try not thinking about it so much...Do u have a car?

    30th Anniversary Trans Am with T-Tops... Chick magnet :)
  • Jun 22, 2007, 09:40 AM
    Jiser
    My ex is with some other gimp now. My loss no way! Get a life where your happy alone. One day someone else will come.
  • Jun 22, 2007, 12:02 PM
    emopunk7
    SAB.. Would you go to stores together and would she watch you shave while you are shaving? Would you massage her feet and carress her? Would you sing to her and drive her around? Would you help her do things and she help you?
  • Jun 22, 2007, 12:15 PM
    Chameleon
    You know... it's kind of a (editing language here) ummm... crappy thing for her to go by waving. Hun, if this is the 6th breakup you are better off without her. How long would it be, if she came back, until the next? Life is too short for that kind of thing...
  • Jun 22, 2007, 12:19 PM
    SAB123
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by emopunk7
    SAB..Would you go to stores together

    Yes, and she took FOR ever and spent a lot of money.(most of the time)
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    Originally Posted by emopunk7
    and would she watch you shave while you are shaving?

    If she was their and I did, yes.
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by emopunk7
    Would you massage her feet and carress her?

    Yes, This is one thing I miss the most and the holding her in my arms when we slept together and the kissing.
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    Originally Posted by emopunk7
    Would you sing to her

    I sang Faithfully by Journey to her when we first met (Our Wedding Song)
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    Originally Posted by emopunk7
    and drive her around?

    Yes
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    Originally Posted by emopunk7
    Would you help her do things

    Most of the time
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    Originally Posted by emopunk7
    and she help you?

    NO she never did nothing or helped me? (Well... A few times)
  • Jun 22, 2007, 01:51 PM
    Jiser
    Sab please common move on now? She's gone so get busy and happy.
  • Jun 22, 2007, 03:13 PM
    emopunk7
    You can make some other girl happy SAB. Somebody who feels the way you do... She is dying for you to find her. Go make her happy and find her. The girl you don't know is the one for you. She is waiting for you! Are you going to find her or dwell in the terrible, confusing, non-caring past? I hope you choose wisely!
  • Jun 22, 2007, 03:35 PM
    april32090
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by SAB123
    It's been over 4.5 months. I know she's wrong for me, but why can't I let her go and move on with my life. Although this 6th break up is a little easir then others but I still hurt and miss her.

    I am going throgh the same things right now. I No people say not to be friends with some one after a break up but I think you should. It will take some of the pain away
  • Jun 25, 2007, 05:22 AM
    SAB123
    I think I'm moving forward. Weekend went pretty good. I stayed busy didn't even think a lot about her. Then Sun night I just wanted to relax in my back yard. Then my ex's sons step brother drove buy looked but kept driving. Then 30 min later my ex and her son were on their bikes riding buy, I was so shocked that she did this. She looked at me and I looked at her she looked sad. I got upset that she was sad, and thought I wish I was on my bike with them as a family again. She looked so beautiful. But I'm starting to question myself a little if I want her back. So I know I'm healed more then I thought.
  • Jun 25, 2007, 06:25 AM
    Shaunta
    Its Hard To Get Over Your First Love That's Why I Refuse To Let Mine Go... if You Feel That The Relationship Isn't Right You Need To Just Let It Go... I Feel You Shouldn't Be Friends With That Person Eitgher... that Was My Mistake We Broke Up But I Wanted To Continue To Be Friends With Him And That Hasn't Done Anything But Make Me Grow Stronger Feelings For Him... the Only Thing You Can Do Is Stay Busy All The Time... find Something To Do To Occupy Your Time... I Wish You The Best Of Luck...
  • Jun 25, 2007, 06:39 AM
    SAB123
    Sometimes, I wish I was like most here. Everyone telling me NO she's not coming back.
  • Jun 25, 2007, 07:33 AM
    Shaunta
    I Don't Think I Would Give Up On My Ex... if You Feel In Your Heart You Two Are Meant To Be Together Then Don't Give Up... the Only Thing You Could Do Is Expect The Worst So Then If The Worst Does Happen You Would Have Already Expected It... whats Suppose To Happen Will Happen... if You Feel That She's Wrong For You Then Why Would You Want To Be With Her? If You Feel You Won't Accomplish Anything With Her Then You Need To Let Her Go...
  • Jun 25, 2007, 08:35 AM
    stonewilder
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by SAB123
    It's been over 4.5 months. I know she's wrong for me, but why can't I let her go and move on with my life. Although this 6th break up is a little easir then others but I still hurt and miss her.

    Good question. When you find out please let me know. It's been 2 years since my ex and I split. Seven months ago I stopped all contact with him and yet I still think of him and wonder how he's doing. I have moved on in my life but my heart is still his. God this sucks! I truly feel for you.
  • Jun 25, 2007, 08:46 AM
    sovaira
    I think it is always not easy to find some one whom you can love very much.I have been into a hand full of relationships.but finally I got to know that the person I love the most wasthe first one only and rest are not my love , but I am with them cz I have to be with them.I cry for only one person, although he isn't with me anymore...
    Well talking about u, I think you should keep going with someone ,whom you are with now. And the time will come when you will comletely forget her ,as it is just less time gone so far... n it will take someitme .well I would suggest that ,when you love someone ,just give him or her full independence don't run after him or her,if that person luvs you or misses u ,he or she will come back to u,no matter how long it takes.
    Give her time and see what happens ,in the meanwhile you keep going with whom you like and are at present with. ;)
  • Jun 25, 2007, 08:51 AM
    sovaira
    And you know what , it was all between us. And guess what ! He himself called me some months ago and shoed negative response , now we guys email each other,cz he isn't stable without me... lets see I think we will patch up.if we don't , then its OK ,am contended with life..








    Hay just wait for the right moment to come .and as I said before. Just wait and keep your life going at the same and enjoy with others as well. But don't get serious with anyone ,cz if you get serious (altho you won't as your heart seems there only ) ;)... but keep enjoying around ,if she gets back its wonderful, if not then you keep going.


    MAN LIFE DOES NOT STOP IT KEEPS GOING!
  • Jun 25, 2007, 09:31 AM
    SAB123
    Personally, I think she is never going to let go of me. But I have to keep focused and keep moving forward without her. Deep down I know I'm healing. The pain is going away I think.
  • Jun 25, 2007, 09:44 AM
    Chameleon
    Ok, want to hear this from a woman? Do not put up with this... do you think she would put up with this from you? She sounds very conceited, snobbishrude, and conniving. I don't tell my husband he has to do all that stuff for me. If that's how she truly is, you're better off without her. The saddest note in this is the fact that her little boy is being dragged through this as well. That isn't your fault. If she calls don't answer. Be strong, stand up for yourself...
  • Jun 25, 2007, 10:09 AM
    emopunk7
    Keep going!
  • Jun 25, 2007, 12:17 PM
    SAB123
    I do feel better noing she still cares about me and not dating anyone. Actually it was a big ego boost for me.

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