She said you are controlling? Lol! What a joke.
Seriously, if she is being like this, you don't need her. She is trying to manipulate you. Seriously, don't talk to her and leave her alone.
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She said you are controlling? Lol! What a joke.
Seriously, if she is being like this, you don't need her. She is trying to manipulate you. Seriously, don't talk to her and leave her alone.
Wow I'm broken what do I do
Nothing... she seems beyond reasoning... there is nothing you can do. Tell me honestly, do you need someone like this in your life. Do you want to feel this way forever?
No I don't. But this is really hurting me so bad. I don't know how ill recover
Exactly... you know you don't want this forever. You know you deserve better, and she is not treating you right.
Yes it will hurt, but trust me, trust all of us, you will recover and be better than before. You will find a nice girl who treats you right and you will look back on this decision you made and be thankful.
Be strong. You will get through this. This girl is not worth it. You don't need her.
Check out the sticky thread in the forum about how to recover, take your mind off things. The most important thing is you work on yourself, spend time one your own and with friends. You will be better than ever in time.
She said if I don't send her the texts she won't talk to me anymore
Good, so don't send her texts... you don't need to associate or contact her anymore.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Seriously man, its time to do the right thing. Do not contact her.
The rule is NO CONTACT and that means NO CONTACT, no matter what. You have to do it. It's the only way you will really recover.
Going to bed. Be on tommrow? Need support
Yup, I'll be here, and lots of others too... we'll help u through this... Take care, PeaceQuote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
OMFG! Dude! Re-read your posts from last night, until further notice I hearby take your man card. You are letting this woman control every action you do. Today I will give you a list of things I want for you to do. You respond by the end of the day with which ones you've done
1. Change your phone number
2. Delete her number out of your phone
3. Put her e-mail as SPAM(just incase)
4. Delete her Facebook or myspace or both
5. Talk to at least 3 new people, face to face
But at least she had her man with her.. for whole life
... and of course, divorce was out of the question! Even if you hated each other.
I suggest that you read "How To Survive The Loss Of A Love", by McWilliams, Bloomfield, and Cosgrove. It's kind of corny in places, but it got me through the worst break-up of my life! It's cheap, too.
Yes... take the advice we were giving Steve... no more contact! This is how you will heal yourself from the hurting. Talk to you later... :)
Now she's saying she wants to be friends. Then said I'm a possesive creep, and she doesn't even like to have sex with me or kiss me and I'm gross?
Obviously you are going to continue standing behind the horse, so accept being kicked but stop complaining about it. When you are ready to stop being kicked, I'll start with the advice again.
No I'm done, I'm to hurt
At this point I'm kicking myself. :(Quote:
Originally Posted by Romefalls19
Steve, you aren't ready to hear what we have to say, you just want to whine and complain.
Personally, I have better things to do then try to help someone that doesn't want help.
Good luck to you. Have fun being a punching bag.
Don't be hurt, be angry. When people get hurt they cry about their condition. But when people get angry, they bring about change.
Now, delete everything! Change your phone number. Trust me it will be weird at first, but after a few days, with a unclouded mind you will feel free
Ya right.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
You're done, until the next text. :rolleyes:
No she said very hurtful things, she said outragus things. I'm crushed. I cnt believe she said what she said. Then she said LEAVE ME ALONE! On her Facebook when it said our relationship ended. She wrote on it saying..
"he loves me!! hahahaha
I want to delete her from Facebook
Don't want to do it, JUST DO IT! Trust me!
Please do! Take away the power she has over you.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Don't stop there! Delete her from everything and whenever you feel the urge to check out her profile--stop yourself.
Yeah delete her, LOL I deleted many times and added many times.. now I am tired, I don't want to add again so you do the same and feel relieved :D
I told her off.. she told me off... now she's BEGGING FOR ME!
Dude... delete her. You've gotten so much good advice on this forum. If you're going to keep dic*king around with her, why do you keep posting?
Yeah try to concentrate on work and other stuff.. don't think about it
Dude I did delete her from Facebook
Cool, now enjoy and don't think about it anymore...
How will I not think about her anymore? She's trying to get back with me now... I'm going to think about her all the time, especially at work
Of course, you'll be thinking about her. That doesn't mean you have to respond to her insane texts and calls. You should go back to page one, and read all the advice that Wondergirl gave you. Give it twenty-four hours of no contact. You have not succeeded in that simple goal yet.
LOL man not sure what you want? But try to give her time so that she knws your value.. and things will get normal
But do I really want to be w her? After she treated me like this? Is this real? Or is this a joke? Is she doing this to really get me back because she loves me?or just to mess w me?
Well, give her sometime and leave her alone.. if she is serious then she will come back to you so hve confidence in yourself.. she will come to you if she is serious.. now ignore her calls and texts
Steve take a deep breathe and gather your thoughts.
Try to stop thinking about the what and if.
She treated you poorly and that is a fact. Remember that and read the responses everyone gave you and listen to it.
My vote, she's messing with you. Love isn't cruel.Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
Will you listen though? No, that much is painfully obvious. :(
:( I don't want to get sucked into another trap.. she said "you dont have to be like this"
Then I said I'm done, she said "why :("
Then she said "i lost you"
I deleted all her comments, pics. And her Facebook prfile..
Then how do you know what she's saying?Quote:
Originally Posted by Steve1010
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