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When do you get your shot? I don't want you ending up with a preventable infection because you left seeing a doctor too long.

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Any day before the 15th

My mum is calling to make the appointment

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any day before the 15th

My mum is calling to make the appointment

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I'm sorry emop! I really am.

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any day before the 15th

My mum is calling to make the appointment

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Good. I hope everything checks out okay.:)

I hope so too
Thanki you all by the way

You did right, and he will maybe mull over it for a day or so, but I think he will be back, he cannot fault you for being honest, that's not a crime, so I wouldn't worry too much, Im sure he will be back.

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You did right, and he will maybe mull over it for a day or so, but I think he will be back, he cannot fault you for being honest, thats not a crime, so I wouldnt worry too much, Im sure he will be back.

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Positiveparent, the main thread isn't the problem anymore. He dumped me...

OOOppppsss sorry

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Positiveparent, the main thread isn't the problem anymore. He dumped me....

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Does this bother you or are you able to move on with your life now?

Im sorry to hear you lost your baby, I know how hard that can be to come to terms with.

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Does this bother you or are you able to move on with your life now??

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I'm devastated, he accused me of cheating when I didn't and broke up with me over Facebook

I am sorry, that's such a callous and unkind way of conducting himself.

Is this the same b/f that was forever saying he loved you?

Men!!

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I am sorry, thats such a callous and unkind way of conducting himself.

Is this the same b/f that was forever saying he loved you??

Men!!!

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Yes, he was also trying to get me pregnant and we had things set up to move in together. He was buying me a ring to propose and everything

Small consolation I know but you're better off without someone who can be that shallow although I do feel your pain..

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Small consolation I know but youre better off without someone who can be that shallow although I do feel your pain..

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Thanks

Life will go on and you will love again and have children, and with someone who loves you for who you are and won't betray you or hurt you like this ex b/f has, in time you'll heal, its hard and hurts like hell. I do know how you must be feeling.

Im so sorry this has happened to you..

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Life will go on and you will love again and have children, and with someone who loves you for who you are and wont betray you or hurt you like this ex b/f has, in time youll heal, its hard and hurts like hell. I do know how you must be feeling.

Im so sorry this has happened to you..

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It isn't the first time... I was engaged before..

Thank you Positiveparent...

I know right now you probably feel you don't ever want anything to do with men again, and I can't say I blame you.

However there are some good men out there, and you will find one who is right for you, even if you don't think that right now, it will happen, you need to fully heal from these past experiences and one day when you least expect it someone will walk into your life and bingo.

When that happens all these hurts you feel will fade away, and you'll be looking forwards again.

Please try to get some counselling over the baby..

I wish you all the love and luck, and I hope this will soon pass.

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I know right now you probably feel you dont ever want anything to do with men again, and I can't say I blame you.

However there are some good men out there, and you will find one who is right for you, even if you dont think that right now, it will happen, you need to fully heal from these past experiences and one day when you least expect it someone will walk into your life and bingo.

When that happens all these hurts you feel will fade away, and youll be looking forwards again.

Please try to get some counselling over the baby..

I wish you all the love and luck, and I hope this will soon pass.

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I know I just wish the hurt would go away soon...

Worst of all, I want him back

I wish I could tell you it won't hurt for long, but if I did I would be lying to you, it will hurt for a while, but in time as you slowly move on with your life each day it will get easier to bear.

If you feel like crying then do so, you've a lot to cry over, and crying will help get it out.

Go to a field or somewhere isolated and scream, call him all the names under the sun and that too will help.

You may feel you want him back now, but as you begin to heal those thoughts will also lessen, he wasn't right for you or even worthy of you.

He`ll get his comeuppance one day, what goes around comes around.

You will heal though time is a great healer, and it may seem slow and to take forever but everyday you let yourself heal means a day less of thinking about him and what might have been.

You have a future to look forward to and it will be a better time for you than has been so far, you will heal.

I assure you of that, Time unfortunately doesn't stand still for a broken heart, and as I said above you will heal. You really will. Ill send you positive healing vibes they may help. I hope so...

He just messaged me again and apologized for being so stupid. We are together again and he's coming over to talk

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He just messaged me again and apologized for being so stupid. We are together again and he's coming over to talk

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No, you are not back together until you sit down and begin work on the issues. Get everything out on the table and figure out what needs fixing and agree on a way to fix it. Start with TRUST. His trust in you and your trust that this won't happen again.

You are still going back on birth control. There will be no more talk of having children until the relationship matures to the point where a rumor doesn't cause this much upset.

Your Mama Cat has spoken. :) :)