Its getting harder and harder not to answer.. I need support

Don't answer it, leave the phone alone and don't even look at it for the rest of tonight.

It depends on what she says tomrrow. If she says "Hey, Im really sorry about everything"... then you can respond positively and tell her its OK, but tell her how u feel about everything that is going on.

If she responds like " is wrong wit you? How can you do this to me?"... just ignore it.

You will only talk to her when she has calmed down and treats you better. She has to know she can't keep treating you this way

Dude... like people said, go have a shower, do some fun stuff on the computer, play a game, watch TV, do anything other than look at your phone and stuff. You need to ignore her for the rest of the night, no matter what.

What if she just says like, Hey

And doesn't apologize?

So why is she saying "i hate u u ruined it all those messages u left were a lie huh"

No contact until 24 hrs have passed.

That's not good enough... she needs to know she did something wrong and can't treat you like this anymore...

You need to man up and show her you ain't taking her abuse anymore. She can either stop being this way or she can just go.

You don't need to be treated badly by a girl you love.

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so why is she saying "i hate u u ruined it all those messages u left were a lie huh"

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She is just pushing your buttons.

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so why is she saying "i hate u u ruined it all those messages u left were a lie huh"

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She is trying to get a response from you. Any response.

If you say yes or no, she won't care, just hearing you say anything will give the power back to her, that's why NO CONTACT at all...

Do you understand yet, Steve?

She's going to be drilling me tomorrow.. saying horrible things.. so then come what 9 pm. What do I say?

If she is drilling you and saying bad things,

Then you say NOTHING

Kind of :) I just need to know what to say tomorrow night after I have 394349 texts on my phone... or what if she doesn't text me at all??
What do you think her emotion is right now?

Calling me again

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shes gonna be drilling me tommorrow.. saying horrible things.. so then come what 9 pm. what do i say??

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Ignore her. Don't answer.

Pretend you are me and I am you. What would you tell me about after 9 p.m.

Now she said


Wow thought u were different.. clearly not

Either way, only reply to something positive, apologetic and nice. If she is still giving you attitude and saying bad things, then she hasn't realized or learned anything yet and she needs more time...

She is currently going crazy, very angry at you right now, thinking you are horrible, but if she doesn't see that she is and has been in the wrong, then there is no hope for her..

Ahh I don't know? I'm sorry?

But it could be to late by then.

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now she said


wow thought u were different.. clearly not

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She's a little button pusher.

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now she said


wow thought u were different.. clearly not

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Haha... still trying to get a response from you... to get anything from you...

This is typical... she is saying things she thinks will get a reply from you... Don't give her the satisfaction...

If it was really over and if she really hated you, do you think she would be sending you all these messages right now? Would you keep abusing someone you don't want to be with anymore?