You've made your stand, now follow through, and keep your word to yourself.

Keep your ground on this one and don't go back!

I know, I don't think there's anything he can say or do to fix this. He has pushed me to far away now.

OK I am still doing NC(almost 2weeks now) but I checked the cellphone his parents gave me last Saturday and he still hasn't gotten them to cancel it. Then right now I signed onto messenger and he was online... he NEVER uses it.. NEVER and his name is all fancy and whatever but I will not message him and he hasn't messaged me.. I know I should I delete him.. I will but right now I am in shock.. I think he expects something and he thinks he will never lose me.. but he has and like I really don't want him to have hopes.. because if he talks to me I know my brain will get foggy again BUT.. I know I don't want to be with him.. but if we were to talk my heart would melt again... helppp someone.. I know you will give me harsh advice! Lol but I think I need it.

I'm sorry but your not over him AT ALL!
Delete him from your msgner, it myt be hard right now but then.. its done.
Your only torturing yourself... ye are over,it doesn't matter if his name is all fancy or what he thinks he is no longer an a part of your life, at least for the foreseeable future.
Delete him!!

Your doing the right thing No contact is great.

Now you have delet him from the messenger

Listen I was like you. And my x keept on talking to me. Going why aren't you speaking to me and that

and its like she was the one that left me it just makes me laugh so I deleted her. Easy :)
and I could move on with my life

and I did I'm with a great girl

Now that's what you need to do
you need to move on and find a great boy

stop wating around for him to talk to you or get hopes

move on :)

OK I just blocked and deleted him!

I'm actually enjoying being single, I can go out and do whatever and not have to explain to a jealous guy what I did and all this and that.. I'm fine until someone reminds me of him or someone says something about him.

Stay strong sweet heart.

we can't control how we feel but we can control how we act.

act well and enjoy your freedom =)

I love it when a woman knows her heart, but thinks with her head.

Just keep talking to yourself, and sooner, or later the heart will listen.

Thank you so much everyone! I am a lot better today... besides the dreams I starting having again last night! Err but I am going shopping today :D:D:D:D lol thanks everyone!

Ahhh shopping cure.. best cure for anything :)

Hey everyone I was watching a TV the other day and in it ,it said.. When 2 people love each other but break up.. where does the love go?. but they never answered it in the show. I was wondering what your personal opinions were? I still love my ex a lot. But I don't no does the love fade away? Or is it always there?.


p.s. like 2 weeks of NC and tomorrow is his birthday :O! But don't worry I won't wish him a happy birthday. But it will be hard :(!

Depends on what kind of person you are... I believe love never fades... love is not just physical attraction to someone... its a deep friendship... just my opinion.. some say it does fade over time and you grow apart... yes I believe you grow apart but you'll never forget those moments with that person

I don't think that certain love fades, but ATTRACTION is what fuels an INTIMATE relationship. Once the ATTRACTION is gone, that is when couples go their separate ways, but you may still love them like you would a family member.

I would like to think that someone's love.. TRUE love never fades.. that it is something that is always with you forever, not just in the feeling but in the memories and the person you are and have become because of it.

I don't think it fades away, I still love my first husband for many reasons, but I am not IN love with him. Many ways to love.

Lady_rose

I still love ALL my exes, haven't seen them in decades. The love goes nowhere, life gets in the way.

I think there are different flavors of love--affection, respect, attraction, passionate "in love." I think the In love and attraction can go away but leave the affection and respect. Or sometimes the respect goes away, but there's still attraction. It depends...

Love does not go away

I loved all my Exes

If you remember the real good times then you look back in love :)