Originally Posted by
talaniman
Like you said, for now don't read too much into it. You already know how quick and impulsive she is, so just step back, and see what happens next. I think you have seen enough to be cautious, and expect the unexpected with a lot of mood swings and (UGH) dramatic flares.
Just never assume that her actions are about you, because it doesn't/shouldn't matter should it? All that matters is what YOU DO ABOUT IT! I mean if you need the type of relationship that needs instant return texts or Facebook certainty, it's obvious you won't get it from her, and it may not be wise to even expect this young impulsive female to follow your program after a few months. Most of it from a distance.
I wouldn't assume this was a break up, since you didn't ask about your status when she apologized, and it's likely because you didn't ask she is assuming herself. Clearly a failure to properly communicate on both sides. The easiest thing to do is let her enjoy herself, and you get on with your own thing, and see what happens later.
I understand your feelings but you have no facts, and if you are not prepared to end things on your side and walk away, and not look back, don't consider NC. Just wait until you talk. No direct communications is at the heart of your drama, always has been by your previous question, added that LDR's are the hardest to maintain, especially in the beginning, then you certainly have your work cut out for you.
Comes down to what you want to do?