So I had asked about my relationship on here about 2 months ago and was basically asking why my girlfriend had been distant and how I should deal with her grandmother's death. I gave her plenty of space and was kind and understanding.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...re-811429.html
Anyways, it is 2 months later and we are still together and have been stronger than ever! She is also now 5 weeks into her 6 week trip across Europe and we have been texting pretty much every single day. It has been great, minus the not be able to see her. 99% of our conversations have been nothing but positive vibes. So last Thursday (4 days ago), she had brought up the idea of moving in together in September and by then we will have been together for almost 8 months (I like the idea, but I'm hesitant also because it is a big decision) I told her we need to sit down and have a serious conversation about it when she gets home and see if we are ready emotionally and financially. I am trying to be a responsible, mature boyfriend/person to make sure we are doing the right thing.
Here is where it gets weird... We did not speak yesterday, which is okay, she is in Paris right now having the time of her life and I am busy doing my own thing. So I talked to her today and she seemed distant and of course I knew something was up. So I asked and she told me that she has had time to think and she doesn't want to have a relationship anymore and doesn't want to be exclusive. I immediately felt confused because just two days prior was completely normal between us. So I asked where this was coming from and how long she felt this way and she kept her responses short and pretty much vague just basically saying she doesn't want a serious relationship, she had been saying the same thing last time I posted on this website.
So, I am super confused, is it possible she got scared off by the talk of moving in together? I highly doubt she cheated, she is with her family over in Europe. Someone help, please.