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  • Nov 12, 2012, 10:12 AM
    alice26
    I don't think he's really attracted to me. And time goes on, so now what do I do?
    If he doesn't compliment me or tell me I'm beautiful& checks out other girls.. Wat does that mean..

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  • Nov 12, 2012, 12:35 PM
    onceinalifetime
    Then he probably doesn't like you...

    OR

    He does like you he just either is afraid to say something or wants to see if you'd be jealous looking if he starts checking out other girls

    This is all I can think of :)

    Hope I helped
  • Nov 12, 2012, 12:44 PM
    alice26
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by onceinalifetime View Post
    Then he probably doesnt like you..............

    OR

    he does like you he just either is afraid to say something or wants to see if you'd be jealous looking if he starts checking out other girls

    this is all i can think of :)

    hope i helped

    I've been with him for more than a yr now & I'm pregnant ,now iiwant the attention ,iidont get it:( anything iican do.. & he knows iiget jelleous ,it turns into fight so y he still doing it
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:07 PM
    onceinalifetime
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alice26 View Post
    I've been with him for more than a yr now & I'm prego ,now iiwant the attention ,iidont get it:( anything iican do..& he knows iiget jelleous ,it turns into fight so y he still doing it

    Hmmm... is it his child?
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:07 PM
    8track
    Some people speak via their actions better than they do their words. They may not give out a compliment, but they'll express their affection through behavior. Ask yourself how his behavior makes you feel.
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:14 PM
    alice26
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by onceinalifetime View Post
    hmmm...........is it his child?

    Yes our first child,. like iihear it frm everyone else that iilook pretty& stuff bt not him,iiwana hear it frm him.
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:16 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alice26 View Post
    Yes our first child,..like iihear it frm everyone else that iilook pretty& stuff bt not him,iiwana hear it frm him.

    According to your other thread, you are a virgin.
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:19 PM
    onceinalifetime
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alice26 View Post
    Yes our first child,..like iihear it frm everyone else that iilook pretty& stuff bt not him,iiwana hear it frm him.

    Now we are getting somewhere

    Maybe he's not complimenting because he has a lot on his mind like you and the baby... (its sounds stupid I know but this happens) and with him acting like this it can also lead him to do stupid things like talking to other women etc...

    Im sure he'll turn up someday and say "Baby, has anyone ever told you of how beautiful you are?" or something like that :)

    Men can do stupid things... including something like this

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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    According to your other thread, you are a virgin.

    Erm?? How is that possible to think that? She said she was pregnant?
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:24 PM
    alice26
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by onceinalifetime View Post
    erm???? how is that possible to think that? she said she was prego?

    Sorry. Meant to write like a virgin!
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:25 PM
    Wondergirl
    I changed the title -- make sure it's okay now.
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:26 PM
    onceinalifetime
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alice26 View Post
    Sorry. Ment to write like a virgin!

    OK yeah but... lots of people write like they are virgins but aren't -__-
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:30 PM
    alice26
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by onceinalifetime View Post
    now we are getting somewhere

    maybe he's not complimenting because he has alot on his mind like you and the baby...(its sounds stupid i know but this happens) and with him acting like this it can also lead him to do stupid things like talking to other women etc...

    Im sure he'll turn up someday and say "Baby, has anyone ever told you of how beautiful you are?" or something like that :)

    Men can do stupid things....including something like this

    He only told meh once iiwas beautiful,on our annervesery.. & yeah iialready tink his talking to other women.that's my biggest fear to b cheated on
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:35 PM
    onceinalifetime
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alice26 View Post
    he only told meh once iiwas beautiful,on our annervesery..& yeah iialready tink his talkin to other women.that's my biggest fear to b cheated on

    Well if he told you once I'm sure he'll say it again! :D

    And don't be afraid of something like that... dont even think about something like that.. NEVER think negative
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:36 PM
    alice26
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 8track View Post
    Some people speak via their actions better than they do their words. They may not give out a compliment, but they'll express their affection through behavior. Ask yourself how his behavior makes you feel.

    .. 8track iim confused ,he will b lovey
    Dovey bt check out other girls.. one big reason iicant bring him around friends & ext

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I changed the title -- make sure it's okay now.

    K thanks I'm new didn't know how to chAnge:)

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by onceinalifetime View Post
    ok yeah but.........lots of ppl write like they are virgins but arent -__-

    Ohh y no point off that..

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by onceinalifetime View Post
    well if he told you once im sure he'll say it again! :D

    and dont be afraid of something like that....dont even think about something like that..NEVER think negative

    thank yuh iiwill try to b positive its hard:)
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:44 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alice26 View Post
    thank yuh iiwill try to b positive its jst hard:)

    The bigger you get with this pregnancy, the more insecure you will feel. STOP!! He is with you and loves you.

    What in your history makes you so insecure?
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:52 PM
    alice26
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    The bigger you get with this pregnancy, the more insecure you will feel. STOP!!!! He is with you and loves you.

    What in your history makes you so insecure?

    .. iidont know ,iiseen all myy friends heartbroken,cheated on so that's the reason iinever had a boyfriend,iim 22 now ,I'ts myy first long real relationship.. iiguess iim just scared to get heartbroken.

    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alice26 View Post
    ..iidont know ,iiseen all myy friends heartbroken,cheated on so that's the reason iinever had a boyfriend,iim 22 now ,I'ts myy first long real relationship..iiguess iim just scared to get heartbroken.

    It sounds dumb ,iidont know y, iim like this
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:54 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alice26 View Post
    It sounds dumb ,iidont know y, iim like this

    Well, stop being like this.

    How can you act so you don't drive him away?
  • Nov 12, 2012, 01:58 PM
    alice26
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Well, stop being like this.

    How can you act so you don't drive him away?

    By stopp thinking that all the time.
  • Nov 12, 2012, 02:02 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by alice26 View Post
    By stopp thinking that all the time.?

    And how are you going to behave?
  • Nov 12, 2012, 02:07 PM
    alice26
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    And how are you going to behave?

    ... yuh tink iido have a problem? iikno he loves meh,he told meh yesterday iilove yuh& iidont want too loose yuh out off no where, & iitold him yuh won't loose meh ,just iff yuh cheat on meh yuh will& he just stood quite,. its the little ting he does that make meh insicure... he didn't say like no iiwont cheat on yuh or hurt yuh,.

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