Was it my fault? (about 1.5 yrs relationship)
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I met my ex girlfriend online, I was after another girl at that time, but it wasn't really going well. My ex heard everything I have done for the girl I was after that time. She prob thought I was nice. During a weekend in dec, 2008, she came to the area where she eventually moved to go to school at. We had one night stand in a motel. We even promised each other, we can't be together. But maybe we were both lonely, we started to see each other more and more. Eventually we broke the promise, became bf/gf. Back then she still lived in school, she would come to see my on Thursday night and stay at my place until Monday morning. She was very attached and would want to spend every single minute me. At that point, I was still living with some friend, but I had my own room. She eventually moved in with me in April 2009, then we moved into a studio in Oct 2009. Relationship were great until Feb 2010, when she mentioned her parents are coming to US in may and wanted to meet my parents. My mom was feeling insecure and worried, because there was green card issue involved. Mom was didn't want to meet them, because she was afraid her family was going to bring up the marrying issue. Then I had a fight with my mom on the phone, my ex was mad, she kind of called my mom and had some unhappy moments on the phone. Then more problems showed up in our last two month. She started talking to this guy on Facebook, he is 30 yrs old. (I am 25, she is 23) he constantly tells her how beaituful and sexy she is. We later even confirmed from another friend of ours, that guy likes her. I told her to not talk to that guy anymore and delete him off Facebook. (she thinks I am jealous and unreasonable) after she delete that guy on Facebook, she gave me this feeling that she was sad and lost a friend. So I didn't want to see her unhappy, I had her to add him back. So she did. (pissed me even more). She tells his that I am not happy that she is talking to him, that guy tells her I am controlling. Then during out last month of relationship, she started to picking very little things and make it very big. And we have fights. Eventually she had it enough, she moved out and broke up. From what I know , she is in very close contact with that guy, she even asked him to help her move rest of stuff out of my place when I am at work. They are dating after 2 week we broke up.
My question is, was it my fault for pushing her away? Or she already had her feeling changed during those talking time.
