Should I give a second chance?
I have been dating a guy for a little over 2 weeks. It has been going great. There is a lot of chemistry and I enjoy his company. So 2 days ago I get a text from a girl saying that he had been living with her up until a week ago. At first when I approached him about this he denied it all together. The "ex" is completely psychotic. It is obvious she is emotionally unstable and upset that he broke off whatever they had going. So I talked to him yesterday and he said that yes he'd been living with her at her parent's house. He was in between residences and it had been a temporary situation... while he was living there they were doing the whole friends with benefits thing. I told him that until she is out of his life we have nothing further to discuss. He showed up at my house tonight with a peace offering and wanted to just lay out the whole embarrassing truth. He said that they had slept together within a couple days of him and I first going out. I was really upset to find this out... but from his point of view we weren't in a platonic relationship when he'd slept with her. The following weekend him and I had slept together for the first time and he said that as soon as our relationship turned more serious he had told her he no longer wanted to continue anything physical with her. When he showed up tonight he told me that he has had an amazing time and feels that there is something with me that he has never felt before... and that I am the classiest girl he has ever dated. He is asking for my forgiveness and to have a fresh start. I told him I needed time to think about it. I don't know if I can trust him and that is no way to start a healthy relationship. But I also don't want to close the door yet... What do I do?