Originally Posted by Namaste
Hi There,
Sounds like she needs to give you some time to regroup. In her "confusion", she forgot that hanging out with a recent ex who still wants you is not good for either of you. Either she wants to be with you, or she doesn't. If she broke up with you, maybe you could tell her to leave you alone for a while. I realize you are both quite young, so things like this really can be confusing. I have done this before, on both ends. Her condradictory statement shows that she wants the best of both worlds, but your best is now compromised.
Only you can decide what's best for you. However, what I hear you saying is that you want clarity. You may find it by setting a boundary. Let her know it is difficult to hang out when you supposedy broke up, and tell her to give you some space.
Best wishes. Let me know how it turns out.
Michelle :)