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    Jun 16, 2012, 08:11 PM
    It's so complicated...
    I am a guy, going to be17 this year. Last October, I started texting a teacher of my school. He had never taken my class, so I had hardly known him in person. Once we started interacting, I began getting attached to him. I felt very own with him. We started as friendly student-teacher, then moved as soul brothers and then I started admiring him as a lover. I feel fantasies about him. I find him the cutest guy. I proposed to him a several times but he always took me lightly. Can I get some advice? Please?
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    Jun 16, 2012, 08:14 PM
    You might want to re write this not using text so I can understand what you are saying. Text is not allowed here for a reason.
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    Jun 16, 2012, 08:19 PM
    Please try to read it once. It is simple enough.
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    Jun 16, 2012, 08:43 PM
    Simple or not, you are not supposed to post questions in text. Rewrite if you want a response.
    Write is using whole words. I know it is quite a concept for some but those are the rules. People should not have to try and decipher what you are writing. Not everyone here is a teenager
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    Jun 16, 2012, 08:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Am0r View Post
    I am a guy, goin to be 17 this year. Last october, i started texting a teacher of my school. He had never taken my class. So i had hardly known him in person. Once we started interacting, i began getting attached to him. I felt very own with him. We started off as friendly student-teacher, then moved as soul brothers and then i started admiring him as a lover. I feel fantasies about him. I find him the cutest guy. I proposed to him a several times but he always took me lightly. Can i get some advice? Please
    Yeah... forget it...

    You will get them fired and maybe even charged.

    Give it up... straight guys have no interest in other guys weiners. Push it and you might lose him as a friend... but you've got NO shot at anything more.

    Its YOU that's got to realize he's NOT interested... because as you say... he's not gay.
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    Jul 15, 2012, 07:53 PM
    I'm in the same situation with my best friend. Expect I'm the straight girl and he's a gay guy. I just love him so much (sort of like you said it just feels like we connect on a soul-level, that's how intense our relationship is). If he liked girls, we would be perfect together. Seeing him flirt with other guys makes me die inside. I just feel so trapped and I have no idea what to do either. I have tried to make my friend realize over and over again how much I love him and how fantastic we are together, but at the end of the day he's gay and there's just nothing I can do no matter how unfair and painful it is. I just wanted to let you know that I get how you feel completely. If you want to talk more about it and have someone to share how you feel, just let me know. Otherwise just know that there are other like you (and me) who know how hard it can be :(

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