Hurt and confused
Asked Sep 12, 2013, 12:34 PM
My first boyfriend and I were dating since my freshmen year of high school. I am now a freshmen in college, our relationship lasted about four years. He decided one day to break up with me, because he needs time to focus on college and on himself. You see, he broke up with me about two years ago and we were apart for about two months when he came back to me because he realized he made a big mistake. While we were apart last time he was talking to two other girls which really upset and hurt me. However, when he asked for me back I was so ecstatic I was never happier!
Now here I stand four years later and he broke up with me a month ago. Like last time he has found a new girl to take my place. However, this time it feels different. He is always writing on her Facebook wall and always liking and commenting on her pictures. It is so hard to know that he lied to me that he didn't need to focus on himself or school work, he already found somebody new to move onto. I'm all alone I feel like. It hurts to know that after what we had he can move on so fast and I'm here crying from missing him so.
I feel guilty about many things I did wrong and I did apologize for those things to him. However other than that we have no contact with each other, other than the fact that we both go to the same college together and I will occasionally pass him. He told me he loved me and that I will always be his first love and that maybe we can get back together along the road. It hurts to know that after everything we have been through he can move on that fast. Also did I mention the new girl he is talking to is 16 and he is 19 almost 20 years old?
So here is my question:
1) Do you think he will regret breaking up with me?
2) Do you think he will ever come back to me like he did last time he broke up with me?
3) How do I get over him like he seems to have gotten over me?
4) How can I stop thinking about him? I try to stay very busy but something keeps brining me back to thinking about him. I thought he was the one, and he even told me he wanted to marry me. However now here we stand broken up.
Last edited by talaniman; Sep 12, 2013 at 12:46 PM.