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  • Oct 21, 2007, 11:59 PM
    holyshnikees
    Friends Married Mom Tried Having Sex With Me
    Ok, so I was visitting with a friend of mine's family and eventually it lead to us all being pretty drunk. Everyone went to sleep and it was down to the twoof us drinking and talking. However things lead up to it, my friends mother ended up making a slight pass at me, which in my drunken stupidity I'm assuming I mustn't have shot down to hard, because it went a step further. Somehow I we wound up making out a bit, and she pulled out her breasts. At which point it somehow clued into my drunken head that what was going on was a HUGE problem and definitely a bad bad idea. We agreed to stop, she left immediately, I got in a cab and went home. I have no idea how to deal with this now, I don't know if she's said anything, I'm kind of hoping we can both just bury this and have it never come up again. It's absolutely nothing I would have chased after sober, I have no clue how I let myself get into the situation I got into, I'm pretty damn confused at the moment with what exactly went down. What the hell should I do here? She's married to a guy who has helped me out a lot over the years, and I've been good friends with her kids for some time. I just hope this whole situation fades away quickly, I feel like I'm living out an episode of jerry springer...
  • Oct 22, 2007, 12:15 AM
    Greg Quinn
    I am an honest guy who hates secrets, and need honesty and promote it all the way! Until now... I would let this one sink nice and easy to the bottom of the ocean. I think having this posted on here is scary and be careful who you tell, I would suggest "NO ONE EVER!" No need to be causing more problems. Just do not get drunk with her ever again. And stay the hell off Jerry Springer.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 12:52 AM
    brookeleigh
    Yah I wouldn't tell anyone lol seriously keep it a secret and Im sure she won't say anything.
  • Oct 22, 2007, 09:19 AM
    Ash123
    How old are you?
    How old is she?
  • Nov 25, 2007, 08:01 PM
    AbL6669
    I can image that if this happened this time it has happened before with other people. I would not hang around this lady and if anyone asks why you do not have to tell them but you can say that you do not care for her or just say she is not your favorite person to be around. They will probably understand mostly if this has happened before. If they push the subject or your parents ask why, well it is just a personal reason that is of no consequence to anybody. If you feel that you have to speak to someone choose your most reliable person and tell them. I would not make a big deal about it, maybe she needed the affirmation that she is still desirable and chose you. I would just not put your person in the same position.
  • Nov 25, 2007, 11:10 PM
    holeinheart21
    My thoughts are that if you were going to speak to anyone about it, then it would need to be her... but at the same time, it is possible that her response would be simply that she didn't recall this happening at all because she was so drunk. You will never forget about it, that's for sure, and if you see her, that will always pop up in your head, but I think you should just laugh at the situation in your own head, because that is honestly a situation that you generally only see in movies like American Pie. So don't stress over it, but rather look at the funny side of it all.

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